Ashley
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And so I'm like. And this is worse when they text you it.
Later, later. Just pause and don't say it, you know? So I sit down and I'm like, what? And so he's just like sitting there staring in the weirdest way. And I go, please tell me you don't have an STD. Nope.
Later, later. Just pause and don't say it, you know? So I sit down and I'm like, what? And so he's just like sitting there staring in the weirdest way. And I go, please tell me you don't have an STD. Nope.
Later, later. Just pause and don't say it, you know? So I sit down and I'm like, what? And so he's just like sitting there staring in the weirdest way. And I go, please tell me you don't have an STD. Nope.
You know, because that would be, I'm sorry, not against anyone who does, but, like, that's something I should know, again, prior to getting married and being sexually active, right?
You know, because that would be, I'm sorry, not against anyone who does, but, like, that's something I should know, again, prior to getting married and being sexually active, right?
You know, because that would be, I'm sorry, not against anyone who does, but, like, that's something I should know, again, prior to getting married and being sexually active, right?
There's no... Yeah, and so he's like, no. And I'm like, oh, okay. I'm like, what, you got some kids or something? Oh, no.
There's no... Yeah, and so he's like, no. And I'm like, oh, okay. I'm like, what, you got some kids or something? Oh, no.
There's no... Yeah, and so he's like, no. And I'm like, oh, okay. I'm like, what, you got some kids or something? Oh, no.
No, he doesn't laugh. And my heart sank to the ground. I feel like I'm put back there right now as I'm telling you the story. And I'm like, what do you mean? And so he begins to deep dive into the conversation a little, not fully. I won't say deep dive. He begins to allude.
No, he doesn't laugh. And my heart sank to the ground. I feel like I'm put back there right now as I'm telling you the story. And I'm like, what do you mean? And so he begins to deep dive into the conversation a little, not fully. I won't say deep dive. He begins to allude.
No, he doesn't laugh. And my heart sank to the ground. I feel like I'm put back there right now as I'm telling you the story. And I'm like, what do you mean? And so he begins to deep dive into the conversation a little, not fully. I won't say deep dive. He begins to allude.
To the fact that he was a sperm donor for, you know, a lesbian couple who was married and, you know, he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to lose me. And I was like, that's robbery. You robbed me of my choice because in the pods, like all factors are at play. You know, and I was so caught off guard. We talked from like 11 until 4 a.m. about the situation.
To the fact that he was a sperm donor for, you know, a lesbian couple who was married and, you know, he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to lose me. And I was like, that's robbery. You robbed me of my choice because in the pods, like all factors are at play. You know, and I was so caught off guard. We talked from like 11 until 4 a.m. about the situation.
To the fact that he was a sperm donor for, you know, a lesbian couple who was married and, you know, he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to lose me. And I was like, that's robbery. You robbed me of my choice because in the pods, like all factors are at play. You know, and I was so caught off guard. We talked from like 11 until 4 a.m. about the situation.
But I didn't really ask the questions I really wanted to in that moment because of shock. And because I was just trying to get around the fact of how we had all of these kids conversations and this is happening to me. And I also was kind of like, oh, no, you know.
But I didn't really ask the questions I really wanted to in that moment because of shock. And because I was just trying to get around the fact of how we had all of these kids conversations and this is happening to me. And I also was kind of like, oh, no, you know.
But I didn't really ask the questions I really wanted to in that moment because of shock. And because I was just trying to get around the fact of how we had all of these kids conversations and this is happening to me. And I also was kind of like, oh, no, you know.
He was like, well, yes. And I was like, how many? And he was like three. And he said I was a sperm donor for, you know, a lesbian couple. And at that conversation, we didn't deep dive into like to what capacity. Right. And so I, again, wasn't asking the right questions in that moment. I mainly was just trying to figure out how he like a mission is a lie. Let's let's be clear about that.