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I think you can separate the two, like you're saying. Focus on your day. If wedding planning made you feel like you need to reconnect and figure out this relationship, then 100% do it. Do it. It doesn't have to be solved before the wedding.

I mean, is it going to completely throw your whole day off if you invite her and she brings him so that you can have her there? These are things you got to figure out, but I would start working on the relationship if you want her in your life, which it really does sound like you do, but don't force it to be solved by the time the wedding comes.

I mean, is it going to completely throw your whole day off if you invite her and she brings him so that you can have her there? These are things you got to figure out, but I would start working on the relationship if you want her in your life, which it really does sound like you do, but don't force it to be solved by the time the wedding comes.

I mean, is it going to completely throw your whole day off if you invite her and she brings him so that you can have her there? These are things you got to figure out, but I would start working on the relationship if you want her in your life, which it really does sound like you do, but don't force it to be solved by the time the wedding comes.

The wedding's just a stepping stone in what can be the rebuilding of you guys' relationship.

The wedding's just a stepping stone in what can be the rebuilding of you guys' relationship.

The wedding's just a stepping stone in what can be the rebuilding of you guys' relationship.

Okay. Number two. Hi, Jerry and fam. Hello there. I need some fatherly advice because I don't think I can come to my own dad with this. I, male 21, have been with my boyfriend, male 20, for six years now and we plan to get married in the future. We've talked and have agreed it would be best to have a wedding once we're better off financially. But here's my issue.

Okay. Number two. Hi, Jerry and fam. Hello there. I need some fatherly advice because I don't think I can come to my own dad with this. I, male 21, have been with my boyfriend, male 20, for six years now and we plan to get married in the future. We've talked and have agreed it would be best to have a wedding once we're better off financially. But here's my issue.

Okay. Number two. Hi, Jerry and fam. Hello there. I need some fatherly advice because I don't think I can come to my own dad with this. I, male 21, have been with my boyfriend, male 20, for six years now and we plan to get married in the future. We've talked and have agreed it would be best to have a wedding once we're better off financially. But here's my issue.

Three of my grandparents are still alive but very old. And my grandfather has cancer and isn't doing well. All of my grandparents raised me and the idea of them not being at my wedding hurts. I'm considering having a wedding this year just so I can be sure they would all make it. But I wouldn't be able to afford much for the wedding and my boyfriend doesn't think it's a good idea.

Three of my grandparents are still alive but very old. And my grandfather has cancer and isn't doing well. All of my grandparents raised me and the idea of them not being at my wedding hurts. I'm considering having a wedding this year just so I can be sure they would all make it. But I wouldn't be able to afford much for the wedding and my boyfriend doesn't think it's a good idea.

Three of my grandparents are still alive but very old. And my grandfather has cancer and isn't doing well. All of my grandparents raised me and the idea of them not being at my wedding hurts. I'm considering having a wedding this year just so I can be sure they would all make it. But I wouldn't be able to afford much for the wedding and my boyfriend doesn't think it's a good idea.

If we waited until we could afford most of it, I can see that being maybe three to five years from now. This has been keeping me up at night. I just love my grandparents so much, and my grandpa is like a second father to me. Part of my issue is ever since I was young, I dreamed of a huge wedding. I would either put that aside or go into debt to have it sooner. I need some help making a decision.

If we waited until we could afford most of it, I can see that being maybe three to five years from now. This has been keeping me up at night. I just love my grandparents so much, and my grandpa is like a second father to me. Part of my issue is ever since I was young, I dreamed of a huge wedding. I would either put that aside or go into debt to have it sooner. I need some help making a decision.

If we waited until we could afford most of it, I can see that being maybe three to five years from now. This has been keeping me up at night. I just love my grandparents so much, and my grandpa is like a second father to me. Part of my issue is ever since I was young, I dreamed of a huge wedding. I would either put that aside or go into debt to have it sooner. I need some help making a decision.

I don't want to regret anything. My ideal outcome would be to wait and have a huge wedding and all my grandparents still be around to celebrate with me. Unfortunately, I can't be sure that'll happen.

I don't want to regret anything. My ideal outcome would be to wait and have a huge wedding and all my grandparents still be around to celebrate with me. Unfortunately, I can't be sure that'll happen.

I don't want to regret anything. My ideal outcome would be to wait and have a huge wedding and all my grandparents still be around to celebrate with me. Unfortunately, I can't be sure that'll happen.

Yeah, it's tough because you can do that, but it's really what is most important to you. Is it more important that they're there or more important that you are actually getting married, saying your vows, doing the whole ceremony and everything? on that big wedding day? Do you see it as those are mutual? They have to be paired together?