Austen Kroll
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I mean, the way you're describing it really reminded me when Natalie and I started dating.
Before we became boyfriend and girlfriend, I was essentially single for a decade.
If you take out bachelor...
world and the relationships i got into as a result of being in that world i was essentially single for a decade and i remember when we like we're like all right we're gonna do this and she was in savannah i was in la you just described i had a ton of women friends yeah and i just like i didn't think about like i wasn't you know i was all well intentioned a lot of platonic women friends
And then we were like hanging out and she's like, what are you doing?
I'm like, oh, so-and-so's over.
And I was like, yeah, no, I can't do that shit anymore.
You know, not that I was doing anything wrong.
Or not that I can do it.
I just really have to move differently.
I have to like check in with her.
What are you comfortable with?
What are you not comfortable?
You know, it was like, and because I was so used to for so long doing whatever the fuck I wanted when I wanted to, I had to have a bit of a, oh, if I want to do this, I have to do it differently.
But it wasn't like, I didn't have to take a course.
You know, it wasn't like, I just had to like tamp in to like-
Being the boyfriend I knew I could be that I was, you know, so many years before, but I knew how to do it.
and and then she was like i'm getting the hell out of here yeah you know and i mean they the internet is not very kind kind in general and i think when it comes to pretty girls who seem sweet and innocent like i mean like i every day i feel like i have to apologize to my wife for the shit that she receives as a result of of being my wife or whatever in the in in
They want to find something wrong with someone who doesn't look like there's anything wrong with them.