Austin

And he said, I haven't drank in a year, but maybe I will eventually.

And I think a lot of times we don't ask that person, why don't you drink?

And there's no reason to not.

And so I just said, well, why don't you drink?

And I've known this person for a while, and I've just never asked.

And he just said, I just gave it up for a week one time and kept going.

Don't really think about it.

And I was like, awesome.

Like, I don't know why sometimes I guess we shy away from the combo.

Okay.

Yeah.

I think sometimes, though.

So I think if they offer up, you know, oh, I don't drink.

Like, I think you can tell a lot by the way they say that they don't drink.

But I like to ask because sometimes it's their training for a marathon or sometimes like you just never know.

And I find a lot of times asking.

I don't think a lot of people ask those people.

On a coffee date, if somebody... Jules is correct here.

Hold on.

One thing I wanted to say, too, about you and these high-friction conversations, it has more to do with you than them.