Becky G

Like it's not on you.

This isn't on you.

And she took that off of me.

I did not receive it.

Girl, that's a whole other thing.

Was I willing to receive it?

No, because again, the system isn't, it's, it's subconscious.

It's not, I don't think our parents go through life saying I want to cause our kids harm.

I don't think our grandparents do that saying I want to cause my kids harm.

You know, these are just things that systemically exist, you know?

And so when I say it's generational, like it's generational.

And so I'm like, yeah, but somebody's got to do it.

Cause if I don't, who else will?

And that was the voice that kept me going for a really long time until I ended up in therapy.

And I was like, yeah, I can't, this isn't sustainable.

Oh, tremendously.

Tremendously.

I think the first time we ever experienced love is through our parents' eyes.

And it's yes, of course in the way they love us, but also in the way they love each other.

And I think I grew up in a culture, I mean, it's gonna sound funny, but it was like very ride or die.