Becky G

To me, I've always believed like half the truth is still a lie.

And...

There was conversations about like, why I just wouldn't even mention it.

Like some people don't even know what happened.

Like some people don't even, even are looking for it.

And I'm like, yeah, but how can I had been in a relationship with someone for so many years and do a body of work, you know, uh, that's supposed to really.

Capture where I am in this time in my life and also my history and

control all delete and pretend that this person never existed, you know?

And I was in many relationships, but particularly in a long-term relationship since I was 19 years old.

And I know that there's like things online about like the 19 theory.

Like, you know, when you go, I think anybody who gets into a serious relationship at a young age,

isn't conscious of the fact that you are gonna shed and you are gonna go through seasons.

And that doesn't stop necessarily, but in your younger adult years, I think I had a very strong sense of self based off of old programming.

And when I went through this very public situation with my partner, it was like,

this like awakening, it was this like moment of like, oh, there's a massive misalignment in who I thought I was and who I actually am.

And I think that that happens a lot for people who grow up in family systems where it's like, you can see it on someone else.

It's so easy to judge someone else and say, oh my God, like, don't you see it?

You know?

And then you can find yourself on the other side of that table the next day and be like, wait, hold on.

Not everything is what it seems.