Becky G

I love that.

That's where you started, that that was your ground zero.

That was not my ground zero.

My ground zero was people pleasing, self-sacrificing, doing what other people wanted me to do, forgetting that I mattered in that equation.

And this was an opportunity in my life to unlock and go inward and make this about me, which was so uncomfortable.

It was really, really uncomfortable to go inward and say, wait, this is about me and what I want.

And if you know me, you know that I do not make decisions passively.

And it was so hard to shut out the noise.

And the insiders say, she didn't even say anything.

They just swept it under the rug and kept it moving.

Like, no, I called off my engagement.

I took off my ring.

Like there are things here that took place behind closed doors privately between me and this person who I love and care for deeply, who I've been betrayed by.

And we could go into the spectrum of betrayal because it looks different for everybody.

But the thing about betrayal is it doesn't just make you not trust the other person.

You don't trust yourself anymore.

And so that was like, this ain't even about you anymore.

This isn't even about them anymore.

This is about me.

And there was something so empowering about that process to say, no, I come first.