Becky G

It's just this like earned wisdom, I guess you can say that kind of is the guide in that.

That awareness was very evident to me from the beginning, I think.

At least in this season of my life when this took place.

And so...

Yeah, I knew I couldn't trust myself in that moment to make any decision.

It was like, it was again, very binary in my thinking.

It was like, you're either fuck yes or absolutely not.

And it was like, I'm gonna end up in the same situation if not here with someone else.

And I need to take this time to figure out why.

Like why, what is the why?

And like younger me, teenage me, outworking my dad, being a better husband, being a better father, really standing on my, I could never.

It's different when you end up in your own situations, you know?

And like I said, it wasn't just this particular relationship.

It was like every relationship I had ever been in was a dynamic of me hoping that things would be different and masking this like subconsciousness of passiveness around this relationship.

To stay or to leave is anyone's choice to make for themselves.

And I made my choice and I made it from parts of me that I, like I said, really worked on and earned to feel good about that decision.

but I also can see all the other sides now.

And it's really a relief to be able to talk about it because I know that there's so many people who don't know me, fans who are very supportive and very loving, who saw me kind of going through this from an outside lens, not knowing the details, not knowing everything that actually happened, not knowing that what you see is not always what it is.

And I feel like

for them to know it wasn't something that was done passively and it wasn't something that wasn't done taking everything into consideration.