Becky G

I've seen there was actually this really cute TikTok trend about this woman who is sharing that and I thought it was adorable.

But yeah, I guess it's each their own, you know?

Can I just say this?

I can say the same about you.

No, I actually think like PTG, post-traumatic growth is a choice.

And I do think that there is a shift in mentality that happened for me where it was like, I don't want to

be a victim of anything.

I want to be a survivor of things.

And also we deserve so much more than just to survive life, but to actually thrive in it.

And that is also available to us too.

And so I can change my mind today and that's okay.

And I can, you know, embrace different versions of myself that thought they knew what was best and not shame them or judge them.

And same for future versions of myself.

Like I can build her up and I can be her greatest champion.

Cause I know she's waiting for me like a relay.

Like this is, this shit's a marathon girl and we are all running it with ourselves and we just gotta keep going.

But constantly, of course,

with connecting with ourselves understanding like what is it actually going to take of me what is it going to cost me because when i say yes to something i'm also saying no to something else and if i'm saying no to something that actually means more to me like i should take time to understand that you know um and so with everything that's been taking place with my growth now being kind of the

the source of inspiration, the Phoenix that I feel that I am rising from the ashes of, of so much that I had to overcome in my younger years.

I just feel like, I know it sounds funny and we talk about being a bad bitch, but like, man, like it feels really good to know, like I've always, she's always been there.