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Ben Hart

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405 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

I think that dating, specifically for a lot of people, is difficult because they've developed a structure around a lot of other aspects of their life, like their work and their school and their gym routines. There's a lot of structure associated with it. You do X, you get Y. And I think that with dating, there's not a lot of structure. A lot of people have this really unique Disney...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

I think that dating, specifically for a lot of people, is difficult because they've developed a structure around a lot of other aspects of their life, like their work and their school and their gym routines. There's a lot of structure associated with it. You do X, you get Y. And I think that with dating, there's not a lot of structure. A lot of people have this really unique Disney...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

I think that dating, specifically for a lot of people, is difficult because they've developed a structure around a lot of other aspects of their life, like their work and their school and their gym routines. There's a lot of structure associated with it. You do X, you get Y. And I think that with dating, there's not a lot of structure. A lot of people have this really unique Disney...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

fairy tale attached to how it should happen. And not a lot of people actually like to think about dating so strategically. And I get, I get why it's not an attractive thing to be like, Oh, what do you mean? I got to do this, this, and this. I'm like, well, you don't have, no, you don't have to do anything.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

fairy tale attached to how it should happen. And not a lot of people actually like to think about dating so strategically. And I get, I get why it's not an attractive thing to be like, Oh, what do you mean? I got to do this, this, and this. I'm like, well, you don't have, no, you don't have to do anything.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

fairy tale attached to how it should happen. And not a lot of people actually like to think about dating so strategically. And I get, I get why it's not an attractive thing to be like, Oh, what do you mean? I got to do this, this, and this. I'm like, well, you don't have, no, you don't have to do anything.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

But if you think about it a little bit more strategically without focusing on the hard truths of the details, just strategically framework. And then like, think about how to progress that aspect of your life. Like, you know, if you don't think about dating or dating fundamentally with more purpose or more intention, then I don't, I don't see how you just expect things to happen.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

But if you think about it a little bit more strategically without focusing on the hard truths of the details, just strategically framework. And then like, think about how to progress that aspect of your life. Like, you know, if you don't think about dating or dating fundamentally with more purpose or more intention, then I don't, I don't see how you just expect things to happen.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

But if you think about it a little bit more strategically without focusing on the hard truths of the details, just strategically framework. And then like, think about how to progress that aspect of your life. Like, you know, if you don't think about dating or dating fundamentally with more purpose or more intention, then I don't, I don't see how you just expect things to happen.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Thank you, Heather. You're just, you know, the way that you hype it up, you're just such a stage person. I love it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Thank you, Heather. You're just, you know, the way that you hype it up, you're just such a stage person. I love it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Thank you, Heather. You're just, you know, the way that you hype it up, you're just such a stage person. I love it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah, that's a good question. By the way, shout out to Vanessa. Shout out to Vanessa. Give her a little shout. Where did it come from? You know, honestly, I came from the entrepreneurship space. I had a startup in my 20s, and we merged with a media company.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah, that's a good question. By the way, shout out to Vanessa. Shout out to Vanessa. Give her a little shout. Where did it come from? You know, honestly, I came from the entrepreneurship space. I had a startup in my 20s, and we merged with a media company.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

Yeah, that's a good question. By the way, shout out to Vanessa. Shout out to Vanessa. Give her a little shout. Where did it come from? You know, honestly, I came from the entrepreneurship space. I had a startup in my 20s, and we merged with a media company.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And then I started doing some consulting, and I was doing some content around high-level perfect development, which is kind of like where my book, I wrote a book called A Zero Mindset back in 2021. And, you know, kind of like it was around recalibrating points of zeros in your life so you can develop a different mindset, you know, risk assessment, ideas of failure, what that meant, redefining it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And then I started doing some consulting, and I was doing some content around high-level perfect development, which is kind of like where my book, I wrote a book called A Zero Mindset back in 2021. And, you know, kind of like it was around recalibrating points of zeros in your life so you can develop a different mindset, you know, risk assessment, ideas of failure, what that meant, redefining it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And then I started doing some consulting, and I was doing some content around high-level perfect development, which is kind of like where my book, I wrote a book called A Zero Mindset back in 2021. And, you know, kind of like it was around recalibrating points of zeros in your life so you can develop a different mindset, you know, risk assessment, ideas of failure, what that meant, redefining it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And it kind of like niched itself into the dating world. Like I've been... I'm fascinated with the details and the intricacies of interaction, specifically in the context of attraction and dating. So I find that I've always found that super fascinating to me. I've been like, you know, and I have my own personal history of dating in New York for over 20 years.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#520 What He’s Really Thinking in the First 3 Dates: Flirting, Communication & Navigating the Early Days of Dating with Dating Strategist Ben Hart

And it kind of like niched itself into the dating world. Like I've been... I'm fascinated with the details and the intricacies of interaction, specifically in the context of attraction and dating. So I find that I've always found that super fascinating to me. I've been like, you know, and I have my own personal history of dating in New York for over 20 years.

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