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Ben Owen

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The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

The initial approach is going after the addicts. Get them help. Because every dope boy has an addict or two or five that are pains in his ass. And when you're selling dope and you have somebody that's shot off real bad, they're a risk to your operation. If they get rolled up, the cops are going to offer them a deal to flip. And so that person is a threat to your existence.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

The initial approach is going after the addicts. Get them help. Because every dope boy has an addict or two or five that are pains in his ass. And when you're selling dope and you have somebody that's shot off real bad, they're a risk to your operation. If they get rolled up, the cops are going to offer them a deal to flip. And so that person is a threat to your existence.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

The initial approach is going after the addicts. Get them help. Because every dope boy has an addict or two or five that are pains in his ass. And when you're selling dope and you have somebody that's shot off real bad, they're a risk to your operation. If they get rolled up, the cops are going to offer them a deal to flip. And so that person is a threat to your existence.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

You want them to get off of dope. You don't want to lose them as a customer necessarily, but you want them to go to rehab and if they relapse and get back on dope, oh well. And so we started by going after the addicts that frequent those houses. And that's not a threat to anybody.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

You want them to get off of dope. You don't want to lose them as a customer necessarily, but you want them to go to rehab and if they relapse and get back on dope, oh well. And so we started by going after the addicts that frequent those houses. And that's not a threat to anybody.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

You want them to get off of dope. You don't want to lose them as a customer necessarily, but you want them to go to rehab and if they relapse and get back on dope, oh well. And so we started by going after the addicts that frequent those houses. And that's not a threat to anybody.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

No dope boy in their right mind is ever going to get upset if you are getting the worrisome prostitute crackhead off the street. They're going to love it, actually. And you're going to build some trust with them by doing it.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

No dope boy in their right mind is ever going to get upset if you are getting the worrisome prostitute crackhead off the street. They're going to love it, actually. And you're going to build some trust with them by doing it.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

No dope boy in their right mind is ever going to get upset if you are getting the worrisome prostitute crackhead off the street. They're going to love it, actually. And you're going to build some trust with them by doing it.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

Oh, because they see us. I mean, there's only two white people going out in the hood doing this. Well, it's more than that now. But they know, and we'll hold events out there. Like, we'll feed the hood. We will buy Christmas presents for all the kids in the hood. Thousands of toys. We've done that two years in a row now.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

Oh, because they see us. I mean, there's only two white people going out in the hood doing this. Well, it's more than that now. But they know, and we'll hold events out there. Like, we'll feed the hood. We will buy Christmas presents for all the kids in the hood. Thousands of toys. We've done that two years in a row now.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

Oh, because they see us. I mean, there's only two white people going out in the hood doing this. Well, it's more than that now. But they know, and we'll hold events out there. Like, we'll feed the hood. We will buy Christmas presents for all the kids in the hood. Thousands of toys. We've done that two years in a row now.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

And while that may sound like handouts and enabling people to make poor decisions with their money, buying drugs instead of presents, yeah, that I'm sure happens. But it wasn't James' fault when Jess and I bought drugs instead of Christmas. You know, it's not those kids' fault. And so even though there is a little bit of handout involved in the events that we do, it's building trust, man.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

And while that may sound like handouts and enabling people to make poor decisions with their money, buying drugs instead of presents, yeah, that I'm sure happens. But it wasn't James' fault when Jess and I bought drugs instead of Christmas. You know, it's not those kids' fault. And so even though there is a little bit of handout involved in the events that we do, it's building trust, man.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

And while that may sound like handouts and enabling people to make poor decisions with their money, buying drugs instead of presents, yeah, that I'm sure happens. But it wasn't James' fault when Jess and I bought drugs instead of Christmas. You know, it's not those kids' fault. And so even though there is a little bit of handout involved in the events that we do, it's building trust, man.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

These people are seeing and realizing you're there to actually help them. You're not there just to go put somebody in jail, you know, or shoot somebody. You're actually there trying to meet a need, meet these people where they're at, and then show them that they still have worth as human beings. Because I can tell you, when I was out there towards the end, I didn't feel human.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

These people are seeing and realizing you're there to actually help them. You're not there just to go put somebody in jail, you know, or shoot somebody. You're actually there trying to meet a need, meet these people where they're at, and then show them that they still have worth as human beings. Because I can tell you, when I was out there towards the end, I didn't feel human.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

These people are seeing and realizing you're there to actually help them. You're not there just to go put somebody in jail, you know, or shoot somebody. You're actually there trying to meet a need, meet these people where they're at, and then show them that they still have worth as human beings. Because I can tell you, when I was out there towards the end, I didn't feel human.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

I wouldn't make eye contact with anybody. I felt substandard to literally anyone. I felt so insignificant and worthless. And I came real close to ending it more than once on purpose. I tried more than once. Do you have conversations with these guys? Absolutely. Absolutely. I want to talk to them about their hopes and dreams.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#178 Ben Owen - Inside the Life of an Addict

I wouldn't make eye contact with anybody. I felt substandard to literally anyone. I felt so insignificant and worthless. And I came real close to ending it more than once on purpose. I tried more than once. Do you have conversations with these guys? Absolutely. Absolutely. I want to talk to them about their hopes and dreams.