Benedikt Oehmen
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard May 2025
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And then you can start building accreditation and you can do research and you can develop yourself into that person. direction that when the moment comes and you're suddenly thrown out, you have a system in place. You're already on the road to something new. It's like, okay, cool. That was great. I'm very thankful for the experiences.
I'm taking all the good things I can from it that helped me learn and grow and become the person that I am today. And with that set of skills and experiences, let's move forward to the next thing.
So the big three is really something I discovered during my last stages at Blizzard and then the year after when I was getting my coaching certifications and I was writing the book. And they're all about being kind, present and open. And for me, it's a framework that when we just stick to those three simple things, everything else falls into place.
So being kind to me is all about self-acceptance, embracing the good things in our life and not looking at what we think we are missing. So let's... What we talked about previously is this point of view, right? It helps shape this point of view to a place where we have possibility instead of restrictions. And then being present is all about enabling that self-motivated and self-driven behavior.
Because we look at where are we right now? Where is it actually that I want to go in the future? What are the challenges in between? And who do I have to become to, as a consequence of being that person, I will overcome these challenges in my way. And that's then where being open comes in.
And we put systems and habits into place to become that person, our future self that will overcome all these challenges that we currently face one step at a time.
and the beautiful thing here is it's a different road for everybody but it's always the same framework and for me i thought i saw it really work in my work with my my former team and colleagues being kind to them and myself saying hey this is a difficult position we are finding ourselves in it's okay to take time to process it
once you're in a good position to talk about it let's be present and see where you are right now where do you want to go and what can we do right now to help you get you there and then in the being open part we put specific trainings and certifications and actions into place that you can do little by little to build towards that goal and it's not that overwhelming anymore
and you'll find a new job simply as a consequence of putting that behavior into place so that is what's a big three all about and how they work for me in a professional life it's also then how i build my business saying hey being kind to myself it's the first time creating a business i'm going to make a lot of mistakes and that is okay mistakes are just
learning in disguise in the end so looking forward to making them because i will learn a lot of from them and then looking at if i want to be at that space and have a successful company of for myself and a successful business What does that look like and what are the steps that will get me there? And right here, right now, what are the first steps I can start taking?
And then being open to putting systems into place for myself to do a little bit every day to become that person who then has that successful business.
talking about the book that how i tested my thesis saying hey i've never written a book before i always wanted to but it was always too scary i just discovered the big three let's try it with this book and what happened is i reframed i want to write a book into i want to become an author And an author is just somebody who writes a little bit every day. So I started with five minutes.
Five minutes became 10, 15, two hours, three hours a day. And after three months, the book was done. The first proper draft was done.
and was like realizing wow it really works like i broke down this super demanding and challenging and threatening goal like it was still there the end goal of writing a book but since i reframed it to i'm becoming an author now and i'm doing a little bit every day it just accumulated with time and developed as a consequence and there i saw
I'm onto something because the big three did not only work for myself at work and creating my company, but also creating this big milestone achievement of actually writing a book. And that's where I then doubled down and said, this is awesome.
This is what I want to bring to the world and help people overcome their own challenges and achieve their own goals using this framework that not only works for your career development, but also for your personal development and other goals you may have in your life.
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