Benjamin Hardy

So I look at gain thinking two ways. One is it's a way of measuring your progress and measuring your experiences. So for me, for example, I've had a number of experiences already today, even just to this point. And some of them went to plans and some of them didn't go to plans. But if I'm in the gain, I'm measuring what actually did happen. And I'm measuring myself backwards.

So I look at gain thinking two ways. One is it's a way of measuring your progress and measuring your experiences. So for me, for example, I've had a number of experiences already today, even just to this point. And some of them went to plans and some of them didn't go to plans. But if I'm in the gain, I'm measuring what actually did happen. And I'm measuring myself backwards.

So I look at gain thinking two ways. One is it's a way of measuring your progress and measuring your experiences. So for me, for example, I've had a number of experiences already today, even just to this point. And some of them went to plans and some of them didn't go to plans. But if I'm in the gain, I'm measuring what actually did happen. And I'm measuring myself backwards.

I'm only measuring myself against where I was before. And the truth is I'm always ahead of my past self. Even if... things go backwards seemingly. Like even if I lose my leg in a car accident, right? Like a lot of bad things can seemingly happen, but if you're in the gain, you're finding the gains and you're creating gains from your experiences.

I'm only measuring myself against where I was before. And the truth is I'm always ahead of my past self. Even if... things go backwards seemingly. Like even if I lose my leg in a car accident, right? Like a lot of bad things can seemingly happen, but if you're in the gain, you're finding the gains and you're creating gains from your experiences.

I'm only measuring myself against where I was before. And the truth is I'm always ahead of my past self. Even if... things go backwards seemingly. Like even if I lose my leg in a car accident, right? Like a lot of bad things can seemingly happen, but if you're in the gain, you're finding the gains and you're creating gains from your experiences.

I'm only measuring myself against where I was before. And the truth is I'm always ahead of my past self. Even if... things go backwards seemingly. Like even if I lose my leg in a car accident, right? Like a lot of bad things can seemingly happen, but if you're in the gain, you're finding the gains and you're creating gains from your experiences.

I'm only measuring myself against where I was before. And the truth is I'm always ahead of my past self. Even if... things go backwards seemingly. Like even if I lose my leg in a car accident, right? Like a lot of bad things can seemingly happen, but if you're in the gain, you're finding the gains and you're creating gains from your experiences.

I would have moved the target. So even if I had hit the New York Times bestseller list from a gap perspective, I still would have felt terrible about myself because I would have moved the target. The target would have been, well, why wasn't I on it for four weeks?

I would have moved the target. So even if I had hit the New York Times bestseller list from a gap perspective, I still would have felt terrible about myself because I would have moved the target. The target would have been, well, why wasn't I on it for four weeks?

I would have moved the target. So even if I had hit the New York Times bestseller list from a gap perspective, I still would have felt terrible about myself because I would have moved the target. The target would have been, well, why wasn't I on it for four weeks?

I would have moved the target. So even if I had hit the New York Times bestseller list from a gap perspective, I still would have felt terrible about myself because I would have moved the target. The target would have been, well, why wasn't I on it for four weeks?

I would have moved the target. So even if I had hit the New York Times bestseller list from a gap perspective, I still would have felt terrible about myself because I would have moved the target. The target would have been, well, why wasn't I on it for four weeks?

Yeah. Or why didn't I hit number one? So it doesn't even, whether you hit the goal or not, doesn't even matter. If you're in the gap, it will never have been enough because the target will keep changing and you're measuring yourself against something that's and something that's external and always changing.

Yeah. Or why didn't I hit number one? So it doesn't even, whether you hit the goal or not, doesn't even matter. If you're in the gap, it will never have been enough because the target will keep changing and you're measuring yourself against something that's and something that's external and always changing.

Yeah. Or why didn't I hit number one? So it doesn't even, whether you hit the goal or not, doesn't even matter. If you're in the gap, it will never have been enough because the target will keep changing and you're measuring yourself against something that's and something that's external and always changing.

Yeah. Or why didn't I hit number one? So it doesn't even, whether you hit the goal or not, doesn't even matter. If you're in the gap, it will never have been enough because the target will keep changing and you're measuring yourself against something that's and something that's external and always changing.

Yeah. Or why didn't I hit number one? So it doesn't even, whether you hit the goal or not, doesn't even matter. If you're in the gap, it will never have been enough because the target will keep changing and you're measuring yourself against something that's and something that's external and always changing.

And so I consider it, you're squeezing as much juice out of your experiences as possible. You're also always choosing to become better as a result, no matter what happens to you. you're in the gain. So everything ultimately happens for you. So I guess it's really two big ideas.

And so I consider it, you're squeezing as much juice out of your experiences as possible. You're also always choosing to become better as a result, no matter what happens to you. you're in the gain. So everything ultimately happens for you. So I guess it's really two big ideas.