Bernard O'Shea

And you can get really good at it, right?

Like, so like you can get really good at doing nothing because people say, oh, you're just sitting there doing nothing.

It's like, yeah, but I'm doing lots of things in my head.

I'm climbing Everest.

I'm, you know, I'm crocheting a blanket.

I'm, you know, I'm doing lots of things here and I'm brilliant at doing nothing.

Or like, you know, I'm brilliant at leaving the tea to go to the exact amount where I can take out the bag, put it in the milk and it's warm and it's hot.

but there's no bag in it.

That's a hobby.

Do you know what I mean?

Like, you know, like that's a hobby.

Or figuring out how to avoid, like for instance, when the dishwasher is popped, the door pops open and just looking around and no one else is around, you know you have to empty it, but just put it back on again because somebody else will empty it.

Thinking of things like that, you know, that's a hobby.

Thinking of how to avoid doing things is a hobby, right?

So that's what your hobby should be.

I'm like, you know, I put up a thing months ago and the amount of men that came up to me and said, I saw that thing you did.

Because I'd be like mostly, be like 60, 40 split women, men for the socials.

And I put up this thing called justletussitdown.ie, right?

Justletussitdown.ie.

It's a new website that explains to your partner, we're just sitting down.