Betül Kaçar

So I think that culturally there, we had a lot of conscious like, and yeah, just

it's not easy to learn how to, or how to love if you're not loved.

Okay.

So, so this is something, but the good news is that it is something that, um, you can learn.

I think that's, you can, you can practice, uh, and, and teach yourself how to maybe give yourself the thing that wasn't given to you.

And then ultimately give it to others.

I think it would be quite, uh,

It's arrogant to think that we will be capable of loving.

It could be anything, really.

That you can learn.

Yes, and you should learn.

There's no excuse to not learn anything.

It is a deeply human thing.

It is a very sad thing if any one of us passes this planet without knowing what love is.

And that could be a love to a pet, a love to a plant.

I had a chance to visit Bosnia.

So I was invited to give a talk in a very northernmost part of the country that was impacted by the war tremendously.

And it was a public talk.

It was open to everybody in the village.

And I was told even people drew from Sarajevo to attend.