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Bill Eddy

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Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I'm not going to do that. So... I'm not one for government regulation. What I want is for everyone to be able to say, okay, I see what's happening. I'm not going to get my emotions hooked. And I think, to me, that's one of the goals is for people to learn I don't have to absorb the emotions because that's where the problem is. People are emotionally hooked and uninformed.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I'm not going to do that. So... I'm not one for government regulation. What I want is for everyone to be able to say, okay, I see what's happening. I'm not going to get my emotions hooked. And I think, to me, that's one of the goals is for people to learn I don't have to absorb the emotions because that's where the problem is. People are emotionally hooked and uninformed.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I'm not going to do that. So... I'm not one for government regulation. What I want is for everyone to be able to say, okay, I see what's happening. I'm not going to get my emotions hooked. And I think, to me, that's one of the goals is for people to learn I don't have to absorb the emotions because that's where the problem is. People are emotionally hooked and uninformed.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yeah, so what's interesting is often your gut feeling tells you something's up here. Like the person suddenly has a shocking opinion of somebody else. They say, you know, that person's a total jerk, and yet you know that person, and they're not a total jerk. Suddenly something's disproportionate. I think disproportionate emotions is often a trigger.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yeah, so what's interesting is often your gut feeling tells you something's up here. Like the person suddenly has a shocking opinion of somebody else. They say, you know, that person's a total jerk, and yet you know that person, and they're not a total jerk. Suddenly something's disproportionate. I think disproportionate emotions is often a trigger.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yeah, so what's interesting is often your gut feeling tells you something's up here. Like the person suddenly has a shocking opinion of somebody else. They say, you know, that person's a total jerk, and yet you know that person, and they're not a total jerk. Suddenly something's disproportionate. I think disproportionate emotions is often a trigger.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I put in a lot of my books now what I call the web methods, is pay attention to their words, your emotions, and their behavior. So starting with words, do they use a lot of blaming words? You know, it's all that person's fault. Do they use all or nothing words? They seem to see things through a narrow lens that, you know, there's all good, there's all bad.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I put in a lot of my books now what I call the web methods, is pay attention to their words, your emotions, and their behavior. So starting with words, do they use a lot of blaming words? You know, it's all that person's fault. Do they use all or nothing words? They seem to see things through a narrow lens that, you know, there's all good, there's all bad.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I put in a lot of my books now what I call the web methods, is pay attention to their words, your emotions, and their behavior. So starting with words, do they use a lot of blaming words? You know, it's all that person's fault. Do they use all or nothing words? They seem to see things through a narrow lens that, you know, there's all good, there's all bad.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Unmanaged emotions, which they may or may not show, like I explained. Some people are good at hiding all that, even though it drives them inside. And the extreme behaviors, do they do things 90% of people would never do? And I'll give an example here. And this is, I won't say the city, but there was a mayor, there was someone who worked, who was a congressperson.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Unmanaged emotions, which they may or may not show, like I explained. Some people are good at hiding all that, even though it drives them inside. And the extreme behaviors, do they do things 90% of people would never do? And I'll give an example here. And this is, I won't say the city, but there was a mayor, there was someone who worked, who was a congressperson.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Unmanaged emotions, which they may or may not show, like I explained. Some people are good at hiding all that, even though it drives them inside. And the extreme behaviors, do they do things 90% of people would never do? And I'll give an example here. And this is, I won't say the city, but there was a mayor, there was someone who worked, who was a congressperson.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And they decided to run for mayor in their city instead of flying to go to Congress. But when they were flying to go to Congress back and forth, this is in California, I'll say that much. People can easily research this. So this person flying back and forth one day, one night, Standing, you know, there was a line to get your bags at the airport after you got off the plane.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And they decided to run for mayor in their city instead of flying to go to Congress. But when they were flying to go to Congress back and forth, this is in California, I'll say that much. People can easily research this. So this person flying back and forth one day, one night, Standing, you know, there was a line to get your bags at the airport after you got off the plane.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And they decided to run for mayor in their city instead of flying to go to Congress. But when they were flying to go to Congress back and forth, this is in California, I'll say that much. People can easily research this. So this person flying back and forth one day, one night, Standing, you know, there was a line to get your bags at the airport after you got off the plane.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And he was told to wait in line to get his bags. And he said, don't you know who I am? And he pushed his way to the front of the line and had an argument with the person behind the counter. Said, don't you know who I am? I want my bag right now. And she said, we don't have it now. You can't have it right now. And he pushed her and knocked her over.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And he was told to wait in line to get his bags. And he said, don't you know who I am? And he pushed his way to the front of the line and had an argument with the person behind the counter. Said, don't you know who I am? I want my bag right now. And she said, we don't have it now. You can't have it right now. And he pushed her and knocked her over.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And he was told to wait in line to get his bags. And he said, don't you know who I am? And he pushed his way to the front of the line and had an argument with the person behind the counter. Said, don't you know who I am? I want my bag right now. And she said, we don't have it now. You can't have it right now. And he pushed her and knocked her over.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

He shoved this airline worker behind the counter and knocked her over. This was a mayor of a major... Not yet. He wasn't mayor yet. He was a congressperson.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

He shoved this airline worker behind the counter and knocked her over. This was a mayor of a major... Not yet. He wasn't mayor yet. He was a congressperson.