Bill

I didn't talk to my dad for two years.

I started talking to him again in 2021.

And we have a

It's an on and off relationship.

I still don't really trust him after all that.

But back in 2021, my wife and I had to move into my dad's home for about a year.

We were displaced.

Our home got destroyed in a storm out here on the East Coast.

And I found a bunch of pictures and such with him and this other woman he was living the double life with, dating back to about 10 years prior to when he was apparently honest and told my mom he had started seeing this woman.

So he was living a double life for almost close to a decade.

from those dates.

So I don't, my question for you is how, how do you go forth with forgiving somebody to that extent where, you know, this is, you know, a thought, my father, you know, my role model, a male figure who's been in my life for, you know, all these years.

And, um, how do, how would I go about confronting him and asking him why he did what he did?

So, like I said, we have a relationship in the sense of we talk a couple times a week.

He'll stop over.

He sees, obviously, his grandkids.

He sees my daughters.

We don't really have those in-depth, long talks that we used to have, obviously, prior to all of this coming out eight years ago because there's obviously mistrust there.

Yeah.

He, in a sense right now, but the thing is, I don't really know how,