Bill

from those dates.

So I don't, my question for you is how, how do you go forth with forgiving somebody to that extent where, you know, this is, you know, a thought, my father, you know, my role model, a male figure who's been in my life for, you know, all these years.

And, um, how do, how would I go about confronting him and asking him why he did what he did?

So, like I said, we have a relationship in the sense of we talk a couple times a week.

He'll stop over.

He sees, obviously, his grandkids.

He sees my daughters.

We don't really have those in-depth, long talks that we used to have, obviously, prior to all of this coming out eight years ago because there's obviously mistrust there.

Yeah.

He, in a sense right now, but the thing is, I don't really know how,

I don't really know what I believe, if that makes sense, because, you know, I guess you still have that whole, is he still lying, right?

Is he cheating on the woman he's with now, right?

Which it is what it is, right?

So if he's cheating on the female he's with now that he was cheating on my mother with, I don't care about that, right?

Right.

I think it's more or less—the true thing I care about is, number one, it's, you know—

How do you go about, like I said, forgiving those actions on my mom?

I watched my mom go through years of depression, having to move her out of, you know, even like I said, a home she built and my father built for me and my sisters and things of that sort.

And, you know, how do you go about just, I guess, forgiving or even retrusting?

I don't know.