Blayne Alexander

He's kind of that kid that, you know, when you get to college, you're like, oh, who's the upperclassman that I look up to?

Oh, he was one of those people, right?

I mean.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

Spent time in his church, influential father, influential grandfather, this whole package.

And again, very similar to Jay Lee, families rooted in faith.

Both fathers were ministers, right?

Like all of this going on.

Very similar.

And there was a very big difference in that Jay was living authentically and Tim Harrington was not.

And that made all of the difference.

That really made all the difference.

And the fact that their lives intersected in the way that they did was just unbelievable.

I think that, you know, there's so much to be said about, yes, being your authentic self.

And I think that

in this fear that that message that you know he confessed um set him off i want to be able to say that i had you on the down low um it's the question of gosh what are people going to think of me what are my family's going to think of me and of course i'm not inside tim harrington's mind i didn't speak with him of course we we tried to his parents um his mom actually sent me a brief email and just said we're going to let you know the the attorney speak for our family and um certainly understand what they're going through right like this is a very difficult situation for them as well um

Wasn't that just the most heart-wrenching thing, though, to hear him say – I mean –

Basically, he's saying that he kissed the skeletal remains of his son, right?

In this, like, I want him to know that he's loved.