Blayne Alexander

Such was the pain for Jay Lee's friends and family, now seven days since his disappearance.

Investigators were trying to figure out who Jay met up with when he left his apartment that morning.

one man stood out.

A restaurant worker, Jay texted shortly before Khalid called him the morning he disappeared.

Detectives found him and brought him in for questioning.

What was his demeanor?

The man said he worked that night and went straight home after.

Detective Baker said he appeared nervous, fidgety.

He denied having a relationship with Jay, but then admitted they had sex once.

His reason for not being honest at first?

He told detectives he wasn't openly gay and worried his family would find out.

That raised the detective's suspicion.

Jay's friend Khalid had told them about men who he described as being on the DL or the down low.

My definition of DL is just somebody who's living like a double life.

So it may be someone who has a family, have a wife, might even have kids.

But on the outside, they live their life as a heterosexual person.

But, you know, in their spare time, they're exploring all their fantasies.

And that, Khalid told us, can bring trouble.

The risk that you take when dealing with people who aren't comfortable with their sexuality.

I remember telling Jay that a DL man will kill you before they let their dirty little secret get out.