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Blayne Alexander

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Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

Detectives found him and brought him in for questioning.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

What was his demeanor?

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

The man said he worked that night and went straight home after.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

Detective Baker said he appeared nervous, fidgety.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

He denied having a relationship with Jay, but then admitted they had sex once.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

His reason for not being honest at first?

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

He told detectives he wasn't openly gay and worried his family would find out.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

That raised the detective's suspicion.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

Jay's friend Khalid had told them about men who he described as being on the DL or the down low.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

My definition of DL is just somebody who's living like a double life.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

So it may be someone who has a family, have a wife, might even have kids.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

But on the outside, they live their life as a heterosexual person.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

But, you know, in their spare time, they're exploring all their fantasies.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

And that, Khalid told us, can bring trouble.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

The risk that you take when dealing with people who aren't comfortable with their sexuality.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

I remember telling Jay that a DL man will kill you before they let their dirty little secret get out.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

I think that when it comes to download men in the Black community, there's definitely a warning on them that if you mess with those men, something bad could happen to you.

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

So just inherently...

Dateline NBC
Bringing Jay Home

The nature of that relationship was a risky one, a dangerous one for Jay Lee.