Bonnie

And we have our 19-year-old.

We adopted her when she was 16, and so we did the best that we could for the few years that we had where she was living under our roof, just teaching her how to

how to save money, just be wise with financial decisions.

And ultimately, it just was not...

you know, received well.

And, you know, so I, my husband and I think are at odds because, you know, one thing led to another and she just wasn't really making wise choices in any area.

And it just kind of was a better situation for her to leave the home, you know, because we have five little ones at our house as well that, you know, she was ultimately an example to as well.

Um, but she's, you know, living with another family member is safe and, and, and good, but she's in a situation now where, you know, she doesn't have car insurance because she can't afford it.

And so she's, um, because she's not working and now she's not working because she doesn't have a car to get to work.

Um, and so my mama heart wants to come in and, you know, kind of save her and help her out.

Um,

You know, I don't necessarily know what that looks like.

But, you know, my husband kind of says, well, she's kind of got to, you know, maybe hit rock bottom, hit, you know, a low so that, you know, she can kind of wake up a little bit.

And, you know, she wants help.

She can come and ask us.

And I'm kind of like, well, maybe she doesn't know that she can, you know, that she can ask us for help.

So we're kind of, you know, at odds there.

And I was just wondering if you had any suggestions.

Right.