Brad

Well...

You know, there's always the cliche, do what you say you're going to do.

But ultimately, I think confidence comes from the memory of winning.

You know what I mean?

If you win a lot at anything, you become more confident in that thing.

So if you want to become more confident all around, you need to win more and to win more.

I think is easy because winning is a choice really, isn't it?

So you just set your bar lower as far as a win goes.

So like when I wake up in the morning, I brush my teeth, I'm celebrating like, man, that's a win.

And for a lot of people out there, they should adopt that because I have people that, you know, come to me, ask me questions.

And when they're speaking to me,

they apparently don't understand brushing their teeth.

So little things that win all throughout the day, just start racking up the wins.

You know what I mean?

Step one, forgive yourself.

A lot of people have past guilt and shame and they just self-talk themselves into insecurity.

you know, so, so forgive yourself and then ultimately pick, pick the right, uh, group.

You know, if you're hanging around losers, you're probably going to be one.

But if, if there's one thing, it would be stack up the wins, just start winning on a regular basis.

Um,