Brad Tate

And again, don't get me wrong.

You definitely want to be tough because life is not easy.

But it's a whole different between being overly tough when you're like, yo, but you're so tough that you don't say I'm hurting.

And then you just run out and you're like, I've given up on life and then I kill myself or I fail to thrive.

Right.

So you definitely don't want to be in that situation.

100%.

I was one of them.

Like, it's crazy.

Like, I was so insecure.

Man, like, even at the height of my game and being where I was at, like, you know, being a cut man, and it was crazy because some of my peers, like, I would make them not like me because I would be so loud and so just over-the-top bragging.

And it was not because...

it was not because of anything.

It was like, I really wanted you to like me because I didn't like myself.

Wow.

You know what I'm saying?

Like I'm over here making the ass of myself, trying to make you laugh.

So you would like me.

And it's crazy.

You know, like when you finally realize that and like, even like saying that now open to you in the forum, it's like, man, like I feel like, uh, uh, uh, uh,