Brad Watts
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Anyways, all right, we got some fun ones. We got some doozies. What is the first thing out of the mailbag?
Wow, that's an intense letter. Gabe, that had to be hard to read, I think.
Wow, that's an intense letter. Gabe, that had to be hard to read, I think.
Wow, that's an intense letter. Gabe, that had to be hard to read, I think.
So yeah, it's just, it's like not cringe, but it's kind of like, oh gosh, I don't know.
So yeah, it's just, it's like not cringe, but it's kind of like, oh gosh, I don't know.
So yeah, it's just, it's like not cringe, but it's kind of like, oh gosh, I don't know.
Yeah. A hundred percent. It's a hard subject to talk about even when you're a parent and you're dealing with it. So yeah, I just appreciate you sharing all this with us. As a dad, this is also really important for me to understand because child sexuality is such a complex... By the way, two words that I was not expecting to put together ever. It's such a complicated topic.
Yeah. A hundred percent. It's a hard subject to talk about even when you're a parent and you're dealing with it. So yeah, I just appreciate you sharing all this with us. As a dad, this is also really important for me to understand because child sexuality is such a complex... By the way, two words that I was not expecting to put together ever. It's such a complicated topic.
Yeah. A hundred percent. It's a hard subject to talk about even when you're a parent and you're dealing with it. So yeah, I just appreciate you sharing all this with us. As a dad, this is also really important for me to understand because child sexuality is such a complex... By the way, two words that I was not expecting to put together ever. It's such a complicated topic.
And it can be hard to know what's normal, what's not normal, what deserves to be addressed, what to let go. So I appreciate the chance to learn alongside you here. We wanted to consult with an expert about all this. So we reached out to Brad Watts, licensed professional counselor. Brad specializes in working with families where sibling sexual abuse has occurred.
And it can be hard to know what's normal, what's not normal, what deserves to be addressed, what to let go. So I appreciate the chance to learn alongside you here. We wanted to consult with an expert about all this. So we reached out to Brad Watts, licensed professional counselor. Brad specializes in working with families where sibling sexual abuse has occurred.
And it can be hard to know what's normal, what's not normal, what deserves to be addressed, what to let go. So I appreciate the chance to learn alongside you here. We wanted to consult with an expert about all this. So we reached out to Brad Watts, licensed professional counselor. Brad specializes in working with families where sibling sexual abuse has occurred.
He's also the author of the book, Sibling Sexual Abuse, A Guide for Confronting America's Silent Epidemic. So really an ideal expert when it comes to this sort of stuff. And the first thing Brad said was that he was impressed with how you've handled a very difficult situation.
He's also the author of the book, Sibling Sexual Abuse, A Guide for Confronting America's Silent Epidemic. So really an ideal expert when it comes to this sort of stuff. And the first thing Brad said was that he was impressed with how you've handled a very difficult situation.
He's also the author of the book, Sibling Sexual Abuse, A Guide for Confronting America's Silent Epidemic. So really an ideal expert when it comes to this sort of stuff. And the first thing Brad said was that he was impressed with how you've handled a very difficult situation.
He was also impressed by how directly you confronted such an uncomfortable issue, how you used the incident to continue to teach your kids about appropriate boundaries, keeping open lines of communication. And I second that. This is, as I've mentioned right at the top, not easy to talk about, especially when it comes to your own kids.
He was also impressed by how directly you confronted such an uncomfortable issue, how you used the incident to continue to teach your kids about appropriate boundaries, keeping open lines of communication. And I second that. This is, as I've mentioned right at the top, not easy to talk about, especially when it comes to your own kids.
He was also impressed by how directly you confronted such an uncomfortable issue, how you used the incident to continue to teach your kids about appropriate boundaries, keeping open lines of communication. And I second that. This is, as I've mentioned right at the top, not easy to talk about, especially when it comes to your own kids.
So his take was, on the surface, when you look at the age of your children here, This behavior could fall within the range of normal sexual curiosity and exploratory behavior. But there are some aspects to your story that were concerning to him.