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Brandi Carlile

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We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

I think that's right. Well, I just think it's the most radical thing you can do is to forgive yourself and forgive someone else. But it's hard because sometimes you can be in a fight with someone and they don't know you're in a fight with them.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And also, I don't know about the specific situation, so I don't want to encourage anything particularly dangerous for you, but also something may happen that would surprise you. So if you can find a way to have a confrontation and hold on to yourself first, sky's the limit. I think you can go all the way to forgiveness all by yourself once you've done that.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And also, I don't know about the specific situation, so I don't want to encourage anything particularly dangerous for you, but also something may happen that would surprise you. So if you can find a way to have a confrontation and hold on to yourself first, sky's the limit. I think you can go all the way to forgiveness all by yourself once you've done that.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And also, I don't know about the specific situation, so I don't want to encourage anything particularly dangerous for you, but also something may happen that would surprise you. So if you can find a way to have a confrontation and hold on to yourself first, sky's the limit. I think you can go all the way to forgiveness all by yourself once you've done that.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And if you just can't, you can do it anyway. You can do it anyway.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And if you just can't, you can do it anyway. You can do it anyway.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

And if you just can't, you can do it anyway. You can do it anyway.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

You're already better.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

You're already better.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

You're already better.

We Can Do Hard Things
LIVE from Mexico with Brandi and Catherine Carlile

Done and dusted, as Abby would say.