Brandi Carlile
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I think that's right. Well, I just think it's the most radical thing you can do is to forgive yourself and forgive someone else. But it's hard because sometimes you can be in a fight with someone and they don't know you're in a fight with them.
Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.
Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.
Even if they've done something so awful to you, they might not really see it. And then you sit here and it's a year later and you're like, I don't want to forgive them because it's really negative energy in my life and I don't need it. It makes me a worse person. Forgiving them means allowing them to come back in.
And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.
And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.
And then, you know, forgiving yourself means that you would sort of move on from this person without telling them that you're in this place. world with them where you're, you're wounded or you're upset or you're angry. You're kind of fucking done even, but like there has to be, if they're alive.
And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.
And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.
And if there's a way for you to have a moment without any expectation of outcome to say what you're forgiving them for or what you think that they did to wrong you, if there's a way for you to do that and make yourself safe, I think you can really aid in the forgiveness process of yourself. And then I think you can helpfully move on.
And also, I don't know about the specific situation, so I don't want to encourage anything particularly dangerous for you, but also something may happen that would surprise you. So if you can find a way to have a confrontation and hold on to yourself first, sky's the limit. I think you can go all the way to forgiveness all by yourself once you've done that.
And also, I don't know about the specific situation, so I don't want to encourage anything particularly dangerous for you, but also something may happen that would surprise you. So if you can find a way to have a confrontation and hold on to yourself first, sky's the limit. I think you can go all the way to forgiveness all by yourself once you've done that.
And also, I don't know about the specific situation, so I don't want to encourage anything particularly dangerous for you, but also something may happen that would surprise you. So if you can find a way to have a confrontation and hold on to yourself first, sky's the limit. I think you can go all the way to forgiveness all by yourself once you've done that.
And if you just can't, you can do it anyway. You can do it anyway.
And if you just can't, you can do it anyway. You can do it anyway.
And if you just can't, you can do it anyway. You can do it anyway.
You're already better.
You're already better.
You're already better.
Done and dusted, as Abby would say.