Brandon Lake

Um, obviously everyone maybe needs a moment to like, you know, take it to the Lord first, but our biggest fights were in moments where I drew away instead of drawing near, drawing near. And I think as men, we have a tendency to be like, let me go figure this out first. Let me figure, you know, and, um, and dude, the more you just.

Um, obviously everyone maybe needs a moment to like, you know, take it to the Lord first, but our biggest fights were in moments where I drew away instead of drawing near, drawing near. And I think as men, we have a tendency to be like, let me go figure this out first. Let me figure, you know, and, um, and dude, the more you just.

Um, obviously everyone maybe needs a moment to like, you know, take it to the Lord first, but our biggest fights were in moments where I drew away instead of drawing near, drawing near. And I think as men, we have a tendency to be like, let me go figure this out first. Let me figure, you know, and, um, and dude, the more you just.

Own, like get rid of your pride and just be humble and just go, Hey, I want to work this out. Like, tell me what I need to hear that you're not saying, you know, like tell me the hard thing or whatever. I mean, I would say too, this is not going to sound deeply spiritual, but I think it is. Um, she actually, my wife said this one day on a, the one podcast we did, uh, we need to do a podcast.

Own, like get rid of your pride and just be humble and just go, Hey, I want to work this out. Like, tell me what I need to hear that you're not saying, you know, like tell me the hard thing or whatever. I mean, I would say too, this is not going to sound deeply spiritual, but I think it is. Um, she actually, my wife said this one day on a, the one podcast we did, uh, we need to do a podcast.

Own, like get rid of your pride and just be humble and just go, Hey, I want to work this out. Like, tell me what I need to hear that you're not saying, you know, like tell me the hard thing or whatever. I mean, I would say too, this is not going to sound deeply spiritual, but I think it is. Um, she actually, my wife said this one day on a, the one podcast we did, uh, we need to do a podcast.

I want to call it pillow talk. And it's literally us like laying in bed.

I want to call it pillow talk. And it's literally us like laying in bed.

I want to call it pillow talk. And it's literally us like laying in bed.

Um, and, uh, and she said on this thing, uh, Intimacy isn't great sex. Intimacy is what you do that leads to great sex. We've got this idea that intimacy, real intimacy is like, is having great sex. Um, And she's like, no, it's the things that you do that that's a byproduct. Intimacy is like, what have we been, how have we been fostering our relationship?

Um, and, uh, and she said on this thing, uh, Intimacy isn't great sex. Intimacy is what you do that leads to great sex. We've got this idea that intimacy, real intimacy is like, is having great sex. Um, And she's like, no, it's the things that you do that that's a byproduct. Intimacy is like, what have we been, how have we been fostering our relationship?

Um, and, uh, and she said on this thing, uh, Intimacy isn't great sex. Intimacy is what you do that leads to great sex. We've got this idea that intimacy, real intimacy is like, is having great sex. Um, And she's like, no, it's the things that you do that that's a byproduct. Intimacy is like, what have we been, how have we been fostering our relationship?

What are the things that give us life and make us feel close? And dude, nothing grows our marriage more than having fun together. I know it doesn't, it's not deeply spiritual and yet it is, but we've really learned these past few years, especially when I travel and I'm busy when I come home, what can I do as the man to lead and go, Hey, let's do this, this, or this that fills our tank.

What are the things that give us life and make us feel close? And dude, nothing grows our marriage more than having fun together. I know it doesn't, it's not deeply spiritual and yet it is, but we've really learned these past few years, especially when I travel and I'm busy when I come home, what can I do as the man to lead and go, Hey, let's do this, this, or this that fills our tank.

What are the things that give us life and make us feel close? And dude, nothing grows our marriage more than having fun together. I know it doesn't, it's not deeply spiritual and yet it is, but we've really learned these past few years, especially when I travel and I'm busy when I come home, what can I do as the man to lead and go, Hey, let's do this, this, or this that fills our tank.

Like jokingly said, what leads to great sex for us was going on bike rides and playing tennis.

Like jokingly said, what leads to great sex for us was going on bike rides and playing tennis.

Like jokingly said, what leads to great sex for us was going on bike rides and playing tennis.

It's not sexy, and yet it is. I'm telling you, we bond over watching The Office, that TV show. Dude, I love that show. Biggest Office fan. What's your favorite character? I mean, how can it not be Dwight Schrute? Come on. Literally, he's the GOAT. He's the GOAT. He's amazing.

It's not sexy, and yet it is. I'm telling you, we bond over watching The Office, that TV show. Dude, I love that show. Biggest Office fan. What's your favorite character? I mean, how can it not be Dwight Schrute? Come on. Literally, he's the GOAT. He's the GOAT. He's amazing.