Brendan Banfield

He's not.

And we were learning things about his relationship with Christine, his wife and his daughter, Valerie.

And pretty quickly, even after establishing that, we got started into hearing how the two went from just being a boss and an au pair.

to having actually a sexual relationship.

I didn't get this really.

It seemed like they went from zero to 80 and didn't really understand why.

It wasn't a lot of setup to the flirtation or whatever.

There was some back and forth.

But the story goes, he was just in the kitchen cooking one night.

She's upstairs texting him.

He said, why don't you come down and talk?

And one thing leads to another.

Yes.

So and what I didn't realize is Christine and Valerie were actually visiting relatives in New York.

So it was just the two of them in the house together.

So she comes down.

They talk for an hour and a half about her, how hard it is to be on dating apps and to date.

And yeah, all of a sudden it goes from that to them going upstairs and he said the master bedroom is in one direction and her bedroom was in the other.

And she asked me to come and what he said was, quote, I did not stop her advances.

Let me stop there.