Brett Cooper

And she said, A reader once wrote to us and said,

Progressives own sex positivity, but abandoned marriage and monogamy a long time ago.

Conservatives own marriage, but can't bring themselves to be sex positive.

That stuck with us because it's true, and it perfectly describes the gap that millions of women are living in.

Many young women, especially from traditional religious families, have come into womanhood without learning anything about sex.

They save themselves for marriage, and then they realize that the culture that told them to wait had absolutely nothing to say about what comes after the altar.

They grew up with negative associations to intimacy, but were expected to become uninhibited the moment that they said, I do.

We believe that sex is one of the most important foundations to a thriving marriage.

You cannot call something sacred and then refuse to take it seriously.

Now she goes on, there were other parts of it that were also controversial to the detractors online, but

Like, to me, what Evie is doing, it sounds like a good and healthy thing.

Because for years, young women have been bombarded with sex-positive content.

However, it was not positive in the slightest.

It was not beautiful or healthy at all, in my opinion.

It was explicit and gross advice from Call Her Daddy and Teen Vogue, who encouraged women to sleep around like men and play the dating games and find your perfect non-binary queer vibrator, which was a literal article.

It was released on Teen Vogue.

Meanwhile, on the right, and for girls from more traditional families or who are more traditional, the advice is always, you know, save yourself, embrace traditionalism, embrace purity.

But again, what happens when you get married?

And even if you aren't a virgin when you get married, maybe you're still looking for pointers.

Maybe you don't really know what you're doing.