Brianna Gomez

And I think that's so important to know.

Oftentimes when we're faced in situations where we feel like our worth is not being recognized, we feel like it is our job to get them to see it.

Never again.

Can you make a promise to me right now?

Say this out loud.

I promise, repeat it, I promise to never try to spell out my worth for someone.

To try and prove that I am worth someone's love.

Never.

never again because I believe that the right person will see you and they will know that you are valuable and you shouldn't have to say, oh, this is why you should treat me right.

This is why you should love me.

This is why you should see me.

It's just so painful and I think as a girl, of course I've done that.

I've done that so many times and I've stood there waving my arms in front of someone being like, excuse me, it's like pick me, choose me, love me.

It is literally what you're doing and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but I'm saying that don't you think you owe it to yourself to just say, you know what?

I'm going to love myself and that is how you attract people who see your worth because if you are sitting there and you are accepting the love less than what you deserve that is the standard that you are setting for yourself if people are seeing you accept people who don't treat you right get into situations who don't respect you if you don't even respect yourself how do you expect someone else to come along and respect you if you don't even love yourself

How could someone else possibly?

Because that is the standard, that is the bare minimum that you are setting for yourself.

So my encouragement, just never sell yourself short.

It's so easy.

It is so easy, especially if, you know, it's a night out, you've had a rough night, you see all of your other friends talking to guys and the first one that comes your way, you're like, you know what?