Brianna Gomez

No one will love you.

No one will go out of their way to choose you or be with you if you're standing there waiting.

And if you are willing to put everything

anything and everything else behind this person because you need them that badly.

If you cannot let your life continue without a person, it's not really your life.

And so I know what it's like to be in the situation where you're like, oh my gosh, this is my person.

He's just not ready for me yet.

And so I'm going to wait until he's ready.

Or I know what it's like to be like, oh my gosh, this is my best friend.

And I know that she really loves me deep down.

We've been through so much and yet she's treating me like trash.

but you know what I will be here waiting when she comes back we're just going through a rough patch right now but she will come around and I will be here waiting and I'll be her best friend forever now here's the thing about these kind of people you might be deeply loyal and often you are such a feeler I am lover girl through and through like I have always thought you know the idea of waiting for someone is so romantic and

And I still think that.

But what you can't do is put your life on pause for someone else.

You cannot sit here frozen in time while you wait for this person to be ready for you, while you wait for them to finally see your worth or how much they mean to you.

Because the truth is, if someone is not ready for you, you could be standing right in front of them, waving your arms, jumping up and down, saying, pick me, choose me, be with me.

and they will still not see you.

The truth is that people can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves.

And here's the issue.

If you are sitting there trying to spell it out for them, why they should be with you, why they should respect you, why they should be your friend,