Brianna Gomez

It's so weird to me because I'm just wasn't really used to that.

It's weird because in the past, I don't think I really thought about support being something that I would look for in a friend, but it should be a non-negotiable.

If your friends cannot cheer for you or just learn how to be happy for you, you really don't need them in your life.

Because oftentimes if they're not happy for you, they're doing the opposite.

They are preying on your downfall.

That brings us to our next sign that you are dealing with a fake friend and that is when they resent you for growing or changing.

Here's the truth, you guys.

Change and growth is inevitable.

Not only is it inevitable, but it is meant to happen.

We are designed to evolve and change and grow.

A lot of you don't realize that you are dealing with friends who are projecting their insecurities, projecting their fears of rejection onto you.

They're projecting their lack of success onto you.

So then when they see you change, when they say you grow on to bigger and better things, they cannot be happy for you.

They may try to tell you that you should be doing something else.

That's not the right choice.

They may try to tell you that it's not even that cool and it's not that big of a deal or that it's not going to

They may not show any belief in you or cheer for you.

And it's not because you aren't capable of growing or changing.

It's because they aren't.

When someone cannot cheer for you, when someone is resenting you for growing or moving on to things or changing, it's not because there's anything wrong with what you're doing.