Brianna Gomez

And then I want you to go and think of this friend that I know you've been thinking about throughout this entire episode and think to yourself and write down what do they bring to the table?

And oftentimes, if it's a fake friendship, you might struggle to think of things.

You might have more shallow things to say, like, well, someone to hang out with, someone to text, someone to go out to the bars with.

That's not really it.

If it's a real friend, it'll be like, oh, they're always there when I need them.

They always support me no matter what.

They're someone I can count on.

And I think that really helps on the worth scale.

When you realize your worth and you realize that it's easy to be a good friend because you're a good friend to yourself and you're a good friend of the people around you, you kind of start to look around and realize like, I do not need these people.

And I know there are people out there who exist that

that are good friends what i always tell when my other friends is that good friends deserve good friends meaning that if you are a good person and you are genuine and generous and operate from a place of love and abundance you will never be lonely you will make friends so easily and you will always have a friend within yourself and so my encouragement to you is that there are good genuine friends out there maybe you haven't found them yet because you've been surrounding yourself with the wrong energy and the wrong people and you've been looking for the wrong qualities

And so I want you to also sit and ask yourself, what are the qualities of like your dream friend?

Like not just them having a big house and a nice car to drive you around in, but the actual qualities and character and morals of their heart.

And then I want you to look at yourself and ask yourself, have you been demonstrating those qualities in treating others with the same respect, love, generosity, and authenticity that you are looking for in other people?

So make sure that you are cultivating that energy within yourself and you will just become such a magnetic friend.

And I feel like the people who match your energy truly do just flock to you when you are like that.

I feel like when I had a whole shift, it's like I just found like-minded people and loving genuine friends so instantly almost because I just felt like I really rewired my energy.

Another huge question people ask is, is it normal for a friendship to suddenly feel unaligned even if it's always been a good one?

This is huge and the short answer is yes.

That is absolutely normal.