Brianna Gomez

You know what I'm saying?

Again, I challenge you.

You can walk into a room assuming the worst, assuming all the things that are going to go wrong, tying yourself to all the worst, but what if you were able to do the opposite and amplify the good and amplify everything that could go right?

How amazing your life would be, you guys don't even know.

And so the next time that you walk into a room, I want you to pay attention to what you are telling yourself.

A lot of us, when we are walking into a social setting for this first time, for example, we are asking ourselves, oh my gosh, what if they don't like me?

What if no one talks to me?

What if you shifted to, oh, I hope I like them.

You know, not I hope they like me, I hope someone talks to me, I hope I make a friend.

What if you say, I hope I like them.

I'm going to make the choice to go up to someone and talk.

It is something that our brains make so complex, but it's actually so simple.

If your brain is telling you one thing and you're clinging onto it so tightly and it's saying, no, I can't do this.

you have to give yourself the power to override that and say well i'm going to do it anyway so think of the most confident person you know how do they enter a room they enter it with their head held high right they're not trying to hide they're not trying to shrink themselves down to be unnoticeable a confident person walks into a room

And they just accept who they are.

They embrace that regardless of whoever is there, whoever they see, whoever chooses to talk to them.

They are going to walk in.

They're going to have a good time.

And they're going to be themselves.

I feel like so many of us, we walk into a room and we try to be unnoticeable.