Britani Bateman

But if, let's assume Brittany continues on this show.

I hope she does.

And let's assume you guys figure it out.

You will, I mean, you are a part of her life.

So whether you film or not.

You're going to have to figure out how you, you will certainly get brought up and discussed in a way.

For sure.

That's going to irritate you.

You seem to have a, like a relation with Heather.

These people know you and like they, you know, no, they're all great actually.

And they're working for the show and you know, um, you're going to get brought up.

I mean, you, you're going to get triggered.

How are you going to be able to not dig yourself?

But why can't you film and show up in a way that's more like supportive and calming?

How do you think you could be a better partner to Brittany?

Well, just kind of back to the thing that I said that you agreed with.

I think again, like just in general, there's the, the,

word stable doesn't really land but again to just to contextualize i think why it's received the way it is is because again the thing that you acknowledge it just well you're unstable but i'm doing the thing i'm doing the things that it's kind of driving you to this instability and i'm playing a big role in this instability and then you call her stable and so the people listening are like well

how convenient you're calling her instable, but you're a big part of why she can't feel, you mentioned safe, and I think in a lot of ways you show up and you seem to be taking care of her, but what she can't seem to do

is trust how you will show up for her consistently.