Britani Bateman
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Right.
Like I was in a completely different spot.
I was ready for a relationship.
He was not.
And so really he had one foot out the door because he wasn't emotionally ready to commit.
So, but he loved me.
And so he was kind of straddling this.
I want you, but I don't want you.
I'm not ready.
You know?
And it's sort of like over the course of two and a half years, it's sort of switched.
Like every time he pulled something kind of one foot out the door-ish, then I would, and unsafe for me, I would be like, oh, hell no, I'm out.
Just like you pointed out.
And then every time I did that, my heart would close up a little bit.
And as he's growing into our relationship, I've been growing out of our relationship.
Does that make sense?
So I'm not nearly as in as he is.
And that's a really good place to be.
I feel like finally, finally, the tides have turned where you've come after me in a way that you're like, I'm all in, babe.
I am yours.