Britani Bateman

Walk on every platform.

What does that mean?

What do you mean?

Well, it's like one of those things where, you know, you can recognize that like any time I get triggered and whatever I shut down and he's like, you can't do that.

And that's frustrating.

So then he like consciously or subconsciously decides to poke the bear to see if he will shut down this time.

You know, it's like she hasn't learned yet.

She's going to do the same thing again.

I'm going to test her.

You know, I'm going to do, I'm going to say and do the thing that I know is going to set her off.

Do you do that, babe?

Yep.

Yeah.

And then I'm happy to oblige.

I'm like, yep, you're gone.

That's been our dance.

Did you feel it with love at the time?

No, I thought it was harsh, but I also feel like it was kind of on brand with the way that we've been in this dysfunctional dance of when you need to pull back because, and, and to be fair, like John Gottman, men are from Mars, women are from Venus.

Like we're going to that seminar and,

Oh, who is it?