Britani Bateman

Like I completely understand.

I mean, I think most people listening, honestly, what these women do, Brittany, Heather, all the housewives, like it's, they give a lot of themselves for our entertainment.

Like it is not easy to be a reality TV star.

It's certainly not easy to be a housewife, specifically housewife with the way that like, you know, there's some shows where you can kind of have a bit of separation.

You can like, you know, okay, this is my reality TV world.

And,

i can kind of disconnect but like a housewife like to be a housewife to continue to get your snowflake or your orange or whatever it is they require fans require the network requires you share your life you know you be open and if that's something britney wants to do given the fact that you guys are kind of all on the fence like i mean at some point why don't you just walk away i've tried

we're never mean to each other it's never this it's just it's just moments of pause going okay and a lot of it has to do with me i don't necessarily break up but she she gets nervous here's my how i've viewed your relationship from afar from a guy's perspective it comes across and i'm just curious what you think if this is fair or not that despite brittany maybe being the one who's like i don't know this can work i don't know if we're pushing you away

that Brittany would really like to have a relationship with you.

And it seems like in the weeds of it all, you say or do things or don't do or don't say things that make her constantly hoping for more with you.

Like I talked to a lot of people on this show and a lot of people in relationships.

And I always tell people like hope's not something you want in a relationship because that's like a sign of what you don't have.

right?

Like when you're out of a relationship, you're like, I want this.

I hope I can get this.

It seems like Brittany's hoping you will do or say or not do or say certain things that would show her that she can feel safe and stable in this relationship.

And it seems like you consistently from her perspective, don't show up for her in ways that make her feel

Like she can do that, which is why she's the one always saying, this isn't feeling right.

This isn't feeling right.

And even though you're kind of like, well, she's the one breaking up with me.