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Brittany Luce

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It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

And according to researchers from East Tennessee University, people who are rejection sensitive are more likely to date online.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

Yeah, that makes sense.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

I mean, look, I've been in the trenches before.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

I don't really blame anyone for wanting to have a smooth experience while dating, but people looking to avoid the sting of rejection might not actually be getting what they want out of apps anyway.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

Here's Lauren Howe.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

She's a professor at the University of Zurich.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

She co-authored a group of studies in 2015 about rejection and self-definition.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

And she spoke to It's Been a Minute producer, Liam McBain.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

Something else I found interesting is that dating online also makes people more reject-ive.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

That's Tila Prank.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

She's an associate professor in social psychology from Tilburg University in the Netherlands.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

She spoke to iBand producer Liam.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

You know, it really breaks my heart to hear that this is people's experience when simply trying to find dates.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

Again, online dating, it worked for me and has worked for a lot of other people, too.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

But what Tila is describing is just not a very encouraging result.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

But what do you do, though?

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

How do you handle rejection, especially when it's happening face to face?

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

I mean, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

This also reminds me of something Lauren said.

It's Been a Minute
The joy of breaking up with dating apps

OK, so we've been talking about what's going on in the apps a lot, but I want to hear now what it's been like for you dating offline.