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Bryan Stevenson

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The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

We have these 13 states where there's no minimum age.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

When these laws took effect about 40 years ago, I started getting calls from parents

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

of five- and six-year-old children who were being put in handcuffs in kindergarten for behaviors.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

It was this kind of zero tolerance, this mindset that children can just be crimes.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And I think what you're saying about the capacity for change is most dramatic in that population for me because one of the things I quickly learned is that when I represent young kids, I can't just be a lawyer.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

I've got to be a parent.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

and a brother and a counselor and a friend, because children in these really hostile, violent environments are still yearning for affection.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

They're still yearning for something that makes them feel valuable.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And so one of the things I quickly realized is that my young plants were constantly wanting me to visit them, like every week.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And they'd be in prisons, you know, hundreds of miles away.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And I was like, you know, I can't.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

So I started doing this thing where I would say, I'm going to send you a book.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

When you read the book, I will come and see you to talk about it.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And my clients, who were many of them very reluctant readers, some of them not good readers, started this whole reading thing.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And I would send them harder and harder books, and I would pick the books, and then I started letting them pick the books.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

A client who was sentenced to life when he was 14, and I've now represented him for 30 years.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

And a couple of years ago, he called me late at night, and I was a little kind of provoked, because he's not supposed to call that late.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

But I picked up, and I said, why are you calling so late?

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

He says, it's an emergency.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Exact Words You Need to Hear Today

I said, what's the emergency?