Caitlin V

So I will sometimes say I'm an intimacy coach or a relationship coach.

Yeah.

No, no, no.

I like to tell people that I'm a coach because that really is the best term that describes what I do.

Okay.

I learned early on in my career that when you say sex coach, certain people have like an automatic response.

It doesn't even feel voluntary.

They just have like a disgust response almost to the fact that sex has been done.

No.

of course they have sex.

Honestly, you'd have to ask them.

This happened to me early on.

I was flying into Chicago and towards the end of the flight, the guy next to me asked me what I did for a living.

And I said, oh, I'm a sex coach.

And he literally threw his phone down on the ground of the plane in shock.

And then was like, what if my wife knew that I was talking to you?

And I was like, then she know that you were talking to a stranger on the page.

She never let me come to Chicago again.

I was like, this sounds like something you should talk to a therapist about.

And didn't, we didn't have a conversation about sex at all.