Caitlin V

And a little bit of information could change the rest of their life.

I mean, it could keep their marriage together.

It could have them seek the kind of support that they need.

It could have them have a conversation that would change the course of their entire sexuality.

That's what I was living for.

So I was always teaching at night and holding groups.

And eventually, I realized that I did not want to continue to pursue an academic path

because i was good at it and i was going to keep going at it right like i was going to end up being a tenure track professor and i was just never going to get out of the ivory tower so i left that and i a friend kind of gave me the word coaching i was out for lunch and i said i just want to help people like i just want to help people enjoy what i believe is a birthright and she was like that kind of sounds like a coach so i started wearing that moniker and uh as soon as i started identifying to people like i'm a sex coach i people would just like

waterfall me with all kinds of information.

Like I didn't, I didn't need to ask any follow-up questions.

They would be like, oh my God, it started when I was 14 in the babysitter.

And let me tell you, and I'd have to be like, look, I'm not your sex coach.

You know, like we haven't, I'm a lawyer.

I'm not your lawyer, you know?

I knew that I was onto something.

And that's been me my whole life.

I was the girl that when my friends had to take a pregnancy test at the Burger King bathroom, like I was in the stall, right?

I was the, one of my friends called me and told me he put Icy Hot on his balls when I was in high school.

Classic mistake.

Called me and was like, what should I do?