Caitlin V

So their superpowers, their creativity, right?

Like real kinksters can, can use kink for healing.

They can turn, you know, any appliance in your kitchen or any like, you know, uh, they can turn a spatula into a sex toy or they can like, you know, use, use something, uh, uh, almost like an improv, uh, actor can take something and like make it into a sexual scenario that can turn someone on.

Like that is their real superpower.

their shadow side is shame.

So that's in the blueprint system, shame is sort of housed inside of the kinky blueprint.

And then last, as you noted, is the shapeshifter.

Now, shapeshifters have the capacity to do any of the other four blueprints.

And so what they do is they shapeshift to meet their partner.

So your partner, let's say they're primarily sexual, like little side of kinky.

Shapeshifter can do that because they speak all the languages.

Okay, like I'll totally meet you there.

But what ends up happening is that they don't get all of their needs met because they're constantly shifting to meet the other person.

And so often what they're told is like, you're too much, you need too much, you're asking for too much, you're too voracious, when actually what's going on is just like they have a lot of capacity.

And sometimes in order to like meet those needs, they want to pile on a lot more because they want to experience all of the other blueprints.

And they can have the superpowers in the shadows of all of the other blueprints.

Or like two opposites attract.

So, so it's not, it doesn't divide cleanly along gendered lines, but it is true that there are a lot of women that are energetic, sensual and are paired with a lot of men that are kinky sexual.

And so a lot of those folks find the erotic blueprints because it's a language and a system that makes so much sense because it describes their experience, right?

She wants him to slow down and breathe and make eye contact.