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Because the utilities are included. Gosh, wow. Okay.

Because the utilities are included. Gosh, wow. Okay.

Because the utilities are included. Gosh, wow. Okay.

So I'm a stay-at-home mom, and I have a little bit of side money, but I don't really count that as our main income.

So I'm a stay-at-home mom, and I have a little bit of side money, but I don't really count that as our main income.

So I'm a stay-at-home mom, and I have a little bit of side money, but I don't really count that as our main income.

And his is around $200,000, but he has a significant amount of debt that takes pretty much all of his income every month.

And his is around $200,000, but he has a significant amount of debt that takes pretty much all of his income every month.

And his is around $200,000, but he has a significant amount of debt that takes pretty much all of his income every month.

It's just month to month moving things around. To be honest, it's it's really tight.

It's just month to month moving things around. To be honest, it's it's really tight.

It's just month to month moving things around. To be honest, it's it's really tight.

But it's not. Here's the thing. I think from an I'm going to say this because I think it's the right thing. your husband can't afford to help and he's putting your family at stake and at risk financially by doing this. And so in that way, his priorities are out of balance because he's now said, I'm prioritizing brother who is perfectly capable of going out and making money on his own.

But it's not. Here's the thing. I think from an I'm going to say this because I think it's the right thing. your husband can't afford to help and he's putting your family at stake and at risk financially by doing this. And so in that way, his priorities are out of balance because he's now said, I'm prioritizing brother who is perfectly capable of going out and making money on his own.

But it's not. Here's the thing. I think from an I'm going to say this because I think it's the right thing. your husband can't afford to help and he's putting your family at stake and at risk financially by doing this. And so in that way, his priorities are out of balance because he's now said, I'm prioritizing brother who is perfectly capable of going out and making money on his own.

I'm prioritizing brother and my mom who, over me taking care of my family, meaning I'm taking care of my debts, making sure there's food on my table first, so that then I maybe could reach over and help later. Does that make sense? So his priorities are out of whack. I agree with you that he's confused. Hopefully you can help him see that. The first priority here is us and our family.

I'm prioritizing brother and my mom who, over me taking care of my family, meaning I'm taking care of my debts, making sure there's food on my table first, so that then I maybe could reach over and help later. Does that make sense? So his priorities are out of whack. I agree with you that he's confused. Hopefully you can help him see that. The first priority here is us and our family.

I'm prioritizing brother and my mom who, over me taking care of my family, meaning I'm taking care of my debts, making sure there's food on my table first, so that then I maybe could reach over and help later. Does that make sense? So his priorities are out of whack. I agree with you that he's confused. Hopefully you can help him see that. The first priority here is us and our family.

Um, I mean, to be honest, there's a lot of blurred lines because like his brother will work for his company sometimes. And so he may work for him a few days and then he counts that as a contribution to the rent. Oh, wow.

Um, I mean, to be honest, there's a lot of blurred lines because like his brother will work for his company sometimes. And so he may work for him a few days and then he counts that as a contribution to the rent. Oh, wow.