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And, um, and it,

the only resolution we ever seem to come to is that we're just different and sometimes it's just challenging because I don't want to feel that resentment towards him as far as there's a pile of laundry that could be folded there's dishes that could be done and I know that you've worked hard and you're gone all day but I just need we just have different ideas as far as

I can relax once all this is done.

And he said, well, I'll get it done.

I just need a little bit of relaxing time.

And it's just very frustrating for both of us.

Beneath my list is probably the need to feel peaceful and to feel, okay, I've accomplished what I need to get done.

And

There's not anything sitting on my brain anymore that keeps me from feeling relaxed.

You can feel relaxed whenever.

It isn't.

Probably a bit of all of that, honestly.

I want, like I'll find myself being frustrated if he's on his phone when he gets home from work.

Our kid, he's an amazing father, but sometimes our child is like, you can tell he wants attention.

My husband will kind of just be saying, I need a little time to relax.

And I'm like, I don't want, I just get so worried that something, that their relationship is going to hurt because of that.

There's no evidence that it will.

I think...

I think you're right.

Like, I want to be, want to have this nice clean house and my kids to have a nice cooked meal.