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Okay, so kind of back story. I'm 43. I have a 56-year-old boyfriend. We've been together 20 years, lived together 18. He's financially irresponsible. He's 56, and he's got maybe $8,000 to $10,000 in retirement.

Okay, so kind of back story. I'm 43. I have a 56-year-old boyfriend. We've been together 20 years, lived together 18. He's financially irresponsible. He's 56, and he's got maybe $8,000 to $10,000 in retirement.

Okay, so kind of back story. I'm 43. I have a 56-year-old boyfriend. We've been together 20 years, lived together 18. He's financially irresponsible. He's 56, and he's got maybe $8,000 to $10,000 in retirement.

the entire relationship like we've fought we've talked about money we've argued about money we've thought about money like he didn't even put money into his 401k at work until I finally cut my foot down and was like no you're gonna you have to so well this sounds fun yeah can I ask you another question oh it gets worse oh okay excellent you're gonna you'll I'll hand you the shovel back you keep digging go ahead

the entire relationship like we've fought we've talked about money we've argued about money we've thought about money like he didn't even put money into his 401k at work until I finally cut my foot down and was like no you're gonna you have to so well this sounds fun yeah can I ask you another question oh it gets worse oh okay excellent you're gonna you'll I'll hand you the shovel back you keep digging go ahead

the entire relationship like we've fought we've talked about money we've argued about money we've thought about money like he didn't even put money into his 401k at work until I finally cut my foot down and was like no you're gonna you have to so well this sounds fun yeah can I ask you another question oh it gets worse oh okay excellent you're gonna you'll I'll hand you the shovel back you keep digging go ahead

Okay, so I just found out the bombshell is his mom had taken out a reverse mortgage on her condo, took about half a million dollars out because her husband was having really bad medical problems.

Okay, so I just found out the bombshell is his mom had taken out a reverse mortgage on her condo, took about half a million dollars out because her husband was having really bad medical problems.

Okay, so I just found out the bombshell is his mom had taken out a reverse mortgage on her condo, took about half a million dollars out because her husband was having really bad medical problems.

So she took about half a million out eight years ago, and I just found out she's got $40,000 left in the bank.

So she took about half a million out eight years ago, and I just found out she's got $40,000 left in the bank.

So she took about half a million out eight years ago, and I just found out she's got $40,000 left in the bank.

What do you mean?

What do you mean?

What do you mean?

I have about $45,000 in savings, about $8,000 in checking.

I have about $45,000 in savings, about $8,000 in checking.

I have about $45,000 in savings, about $8,000 in checking.

Oh, there's so many other problems with the relationship. It's a sexless relationship. We haven't had sex in, I don't know, nine years.