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The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

I, yeah, I'm with Ken to an extent, I think. Yeah, for you, it does equate to dollars and cents equals success. And that's not necessarily a bad thing. But to Ken's point, if the goalpost is always moving, it's hard to know when did I hit it? Like, did I meet the goal? Am I ever going to be, quote, successful, right?

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

I, yeah, I'm with Ken to an extent, I think. Yeah, for you, it does equate to dollars and cents equals success. And that's not necessarily a bad thing. But to Ken's point, if the goalpost is always moving, it's hard to know when did I hit it? Like, did I meet the goal? Am I ever going to be, quote, successful, right?

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

I, yeah, I'm with Ken to an extent, I think. Yeah, for you, it does equate to dollars and cents equals success. And that's not necessarily a bad thing. But to Ken's point, if the goalpost is always moving, it's hard to know when did I hit it? Like, did I meet the goal? Am I ever going to be, quote, successful, right?

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

I think the problem in the relationship is for you with, you know, you're dating this man. If for you success, if that also points to whether or not you're a leader, like if that definition filters into those areas of is he a leader because he's not making this money? Is he considered strong? Like, right. Because he works for somebody. Right.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

I think the problem in the relationship is for you with, you know, you're dating this man. If for you success, if that also points to whether or not you're a leader, like if that definition filters into those areas of is he a leader because he's not making this money? Is he considered strong? Like, right. Because he works for somebody. Right.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

I think the problem in the relationship is for you with, you know, you're dating this man. If for you success, if that also points to whether or not you're a leader, like if that definition filters into those areas of is he a leader because he's not making this money? Is he considered strong? Like, right. Because he works for somebody. Right.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

Like if it starts filtering into those areas to where you're viewing him as weaker, you're viewing him as less of a leader. I think that is going to cause problems over time. So I think your homework is to keep. everything in its proper place and say this, you know, how can I say this to keep everything in its proper place and say, these are the goals for my life.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

Like if it starts filtering into those areas to where you're viewing him as weaker, you're viewing him as less of a leader. I think that is going to cause problems over time. So I think your homework is to keep. everything in its proper place and say this, you know, how can I say this to keep everything in its proper place and say, these are the goals for my life.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

Like if it starts filtering into those areas to where you're viewing him as weaker, you're viewing him as less of a leader. I think that is going to cause problems over time. So I think your homework is to keep. everything in its proper place and say this, you know, how can I say this to keep everything in its proper place and say, these are the goals for my life.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

And for me, you know, I view this as a measure or a bar of success for me. And if somebody else doesn't meet it, it doesn't mean that they're not successful because they might have a different bar of what they view as success. And so sitting down with him and saying, Hey, you know, Biff, what do you consider to be a successful success? Like, what does that mean for you?

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

And for me, you know, I view this as a measure or a bar of success for me. And if somebody else doesn't meet it, it doesn't mean that they're not successful because they might have a different bar of what they view as success. And so sitting down with him and saying, Hey, you know, Biff, what do you consider to be a successful success? Like, what does that mean for you?

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

And for me, you know, I view this as a measure or a bar of success for me. And if somebody else doesn't meet it, it doesn't mean that they're not successful because they might have a different bar of what they view as success. And so sitting down with him and saying, Hey, you know, Biff, what do you consider to be a successful success? Like, what does that mean for you?

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

And then it's you being inquisitive to him and you being curious about what his definition is. And so you guys can start to learn about what that means. Because I think the breakdown would be if you start viewing him less than or as somehow weak or as somehow like not a leader. If you're married to this person, that is not going to work.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

And then it's you being inquisitive to him and you being curious about what his definition is. And so you guys can start to learn about what that means. Because I think the breakdown would be if you start viewing him less than or as somehow weak or as somehow like not a leader. If you're married to this person, that is not going to work.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

And then it's you being inquisitive to him and you being curious about what his definition is. And so you guys can start to learn about what that means. Because I think the breakdown would be if you start viewing him less than or as somehow weak or as somehow like not a leader. If you're married to this person, that is not going to work.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

Hey, guys. How's it going? Good. How are you? Oh, pretty good. So my question is, I'm 19 years old, moved away from home, currently living on my grandpa's farm, and my dad wants $2,800 a month from me. For what? And he does not. So basically his dad, my grandpa... Uh, you know, most kids turn out of age when they're 18. Uh, my grandpa, uh, decided to do that for my dad when he turned 21, uh,

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

Hey, guys. How's it going? Good. How are you? Oh, pretty good. So my question is, I'm 19 years old, moved away from home, currently living on my grandpa's farm, and my dad wants $2,800 a month from me. For what? And he does not. So basically his dad, my grandpa... Uh, you know, most kids turn out of age when they're 18. Uh, my grandpa, uh, decided to do that for my dad when he turned 21, uh,

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

Hey, guys. How's it going? Good. How are you? Oh, pretty good. So my question is, I'm 19 years old, moved away from home, currently living on my grandpa's farm, and my dad wants $2,800 a month from me. For what? And he does not. So basically his dad, my grandpa... Uh, you know, most kids turn out of age when they're 18. Uh, my grandpa, uh, decided to do that for my dad when he turned 21, uh,

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

For me, when I turn 21.

The Ramsey Show
You Can't Build Wealth with Financial Chaos Around You

For me, when I turn 21.