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Nine months.

No.

No.

So the Philippines was our hub. I'm a really intentional person, so we made sure to a little bit. My mindset was, okay, if we're going to think about dating, we need to do things where we can evaluate each other. So let's go serve with our church. I've been wanting to do some things with the Filipino community and want to give back. That's been my dream.

So the Philippines was our hub. I'm a really intentional person, so we made sure to a little bit. My mindset was, okay, if we're going to think about dating, we need to do things where we can evaluate each other. So let's go serve with our church. I've been wanting to do some things with the Filipino community and want to give back. That's been my dream.

So really our first few months together was being able to serve our people. And I was able to evaluate, okay, how does she treat people? How does she talk to people? How does she treat people that can't do something for her in return? And what does her heart look like? And being able to do that from... the beginning of our dating, set everything up.

So really our first few months together was being able to serve our people. And I was able to evaluate, okay, how does she treat people? How does she talk to people? How does she treat people that can't do something for her in return? And what does her heart look like? And being able to do that from... the beginning of our dating, set everything up.

Yes, it was a process. Our pre-marriage counseling, I told them, okay, give us an assignment where we can't talk to each other for a few days, basically do fasting from each other where we have to prepare our vows and everything. You got the marriage counselor involved so it doesn't look like I'm in it. So I told them. You're a psychopath. I am. I'm a genius.

Yes, it was a process. Our pre-marriage counseling, I told them, okay, give us an assignment where we can't talk to each other for a few days, basically do fasting from each other where we have to prepare our vows and everything. You got the marriage counselor involved so it doesn't look like I'm in it. So I told them. You're a psychopath. I am. I'm a genius.

So I told them, okay, tell her that you guys can't talk for three days so you can prepare your vows.

So I told them, okay, tell her that you guys can't talk for three days so you can prepare your vows.

We had a long process, so we had to kind of plan our wedding. And I had to plan the proposal because we only have a short window of off-season.

We had a long process, so we had to kind of plan our wedding. And I had to plan the proposal because we only have a short window of off-season.

So it gave me time to get there. We rented the place out where we had one of our first, quote unquote, like fancy dates.

So it gave me time to get there. We rented the place out where we had one of our first, quote unquote, like fancy dates.

And it went exactly how we planned on it. Spoiler alert. Like step by step.

And it went exactly how we planned on it. Spoiler alert. Like step by step.

Now I'm just realizing that's exactly what I'm doing with the celebrations, and that's pretty consistent. I didn't realize that until now. You didn't realize it until this interview? Right now. Like, dang, I'm doing the same exact videos then as I'm doing now. That's actually crazy.

Now I'm just realizing that's exactly what I'm doing with the celebrations, and that's pretty consistent. I didn't realize that until now. You didn't realize it until this interview? Right now. Like, dang, I'm doing the same exact videos then as I'm doing now. That's actually crazy.

Had you considered this? I'd never considered it until a few months into dating. I'm like, you want to come to a game? And she said, I can't. I said, what do you mean? No, I can just buy you a plane ticket. You can come to a game. She's like, no, I can't. I said, what do you mean you can't? I got it. Like, I'll take care of it. She said, I literally can't come to the States.