Carl Lentz
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Conversely, you wake up, brush your teeth, you take a shower, you go outside, you go buy flowers for her, and you go work on the seven things that you're not great at, and you're trying to read her love languages, trying to make sure you understand her, and who's that guy? Well, okay, probably a good guy, but the first one sounds very appealing to me.
Conversely, you wake up, brush your teeth, you take a shower, you go outside, you go buy flowers for her, and you go work on the seven things that you're not great at, and you're trying to read her love languages, trying to make sure you understand her, and who's that guy? Well, okay, probably a good guy, but the first one sounds very appealing to me.
So even with my daughters, when they're dating, I'm always having them check that guy's self-care routine. I don't care about the other stuff. I don't care about if he's being handsome. I don't care if he's funny. I don't care if he's cool. Is he open to therapy? Does he have someone he confides in? Is he vulnerable with his weaknesses?
So even with my daughters, when they're dating, I'm always having them check that guy's self-care routine. I don't care about the other stuff. I don't care about if he's being handsome. I don't care if he's funny. I don't care if he's cool. Is he open to therapy? Does he have someone he confides in? Is he vulnerable with his weaknesses?
So even with my daughters, when they're dating, I'm always having them check that guy's self-care routine. I don't care about the other stuff. I don't care about if he's being handsome. I don't care if he's funny. I don't care if he's cool. Is he open to therapy? Does he have someone he confides in? Is he vulnerable with his weaknesses?
And although that can seem a little bit mature, I understand everybody's age is different, but I do believe the call that I see God doing is trying to get people to mature faster. So it's not shocking to me. I'm sitting across from a 21-year-old guy who has depth beyond your years. But I think with your girlfriend, anybody you're dating, first question to ask is, am I mature? Am I helping myself?
And although that can seem a little bit mature, I understand everybody's age is different, but I do believe the call that I see God doing is trying to get people to mature faster. So it's not shocking to me. I'm sitting across from a 21-year-old guy who has depth beyond your years. But I think with your girlfriend, anybody you're dating, first question to ask is, am I mature? Am I helping myself?
And although that can seem a little bit mature, I understand everybody's age is different, but I do believe the call that I see God doing is trying to get people to mature faster. So it's not shocking to me. I'm sitting across from a 21-year-old guy who has depth beyond your years. But I think with your girlfriend, anybody you're dating, first question to ask is, am I mature? Am I helping myself?
Because if I can't lead myself, how on earth am I going to try to help lead another person? So once you get that rhythm, then you can just, you know, the overflow of who you are, it's going to make you a really compelling person to date. And if it doesn't go the distance, you walk away with two healthy people. That's how you know somebody was working on themselves.
Because if I can't lead myself, how on earth am I going to try to help lead another person? So once you get that rhythm, then you can just, you know, the overflow of who you are, it's going to make you a really compelling person to date. And if it doesn't go the distance, you walk away with two healthy people. That's how you know somebody was working on themselves.
Because if I can't lead myself, how on earth am I going to try to help lead another person? So once you get that rhythm, then you can just, you know, the overflow of who you are, it's going to make you a really compelling person to date. And if it doesn't go the distance, you walk away with two healthy people. That's how you know somebody was working on themselves.
And when you see people have relational breakdowns and they're shattered for months after, it's typically because they've had sex, firstly. And they haven't understood the deep consequences of what that can mean physically. And then somebody wasn't healthy. So now the breakup was just hard. Like the most beautiful testament to a Christian relationship is when people have deep love, deep feelings.
And when you see people have relational breakdowns and they're shattered for months after, it's typically because they've had sex, firstly. And they haven't understood the deep consequences of what that can mean physically. And then somebody wasn't healthy. So now the breakup was just hard. Like the most beautiful testament to a Christian relationship is when people have deep love, deep feelings.
And when you see people have relational breakdowns and they're shattered for months after, it's typically because they've had sex, firstly. And they haven't understood the deep consequences of what that can mean physically. And then somebody wasn't healthy. So now the breakup was just hard. Like the most beautiful testament to a Christian relationship is when people have deep love, deep feelings.
They don't decide to go on a future chapter together, but they both look at each other and say, you made me better. Yes, there was some heartbreak and I'm sad, but the impact you had on me was I became a better person.
They don't decide to go on a future chapter together, but they both look at each other and say, you made me better. Yes, there was some heartbreak and I'm sad, but the impact you had on me was I became a better person.
They don't decide to go on a future chapter together, but they both look at each other and say, you made me better. Yes, there was some heartbreak and I'm sad, but the impact you had on me was I became a better person.
And I think if that's your goal as a as a boyfriend, you're either going to find the woman of your dreams and get married or you're going to help somebody down the road that you don't know invest in this beautiful person that God did not entrust to you. That's a beautiful place to be.
And I think if that's your goal as a as a boyfriend, you're either going to find the woman of your dreams and get married or you're going to help somebody down the road that you don't know invest in this beautiful person that God did not entrust to you. That's a beautiful place to be.
And I think if that's your goal as a as a boyfriend, you're either going to find the woman of your dreams and get married or you're going to help somebody down the road that you don't know invest in this beautiful person that God did not entrust to you. That's a beautiful place to be.