Carly

So the best thing we can do, the bottom line for ourselves is to take care of ourselves. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to enjoy your life. And we can't sacrifice our life because this is happening or happening to somebody we love. We can't sacrifice our life for them. And that's the best thing we can do is to stay healthy ourselves.

Yeah, definitely not saying it's easy, but I think we have to realize that it's something...

Yeah, definitely not saying it's easy, but I think we have to realize that it's something...

Yeah, definitely not saying it's easy, but I think we have to realize that it's something...

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, that's why the bottom line is we have to take care. So if he turns around and I don't know what happens, I want to be in a good place. If we're to have a relationship, things turn around, things turn around 100%. He's stable again. He needs assistance for whatever reason.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, that's why the bottom line is we have to take care. So if he turns around and I don't know what happens, I want to be in a good place. If we're to have a relationship, things turn around, things turn around 100%. He's stable again. He needs assistance for whatever reason.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, that's why the bottom line is we have to take care. So if he turns around and I don't know what happens, I want to be in a good place. If we're to have a relationship, things turn around, things turn around 100%. He's stable again. He needs assistance for whatever reason.

Hi, my name's Carly. I'm 26 years old and I wanted to know if the D1 quarterback athlete I was talking to was manipulating me or am I just being dramatic?

Hi, my name's Carly. I'm 26 years old and I wanted to know if the D1 quarterback athlete I was talking to was manipulating me or am I just being dramatic?

Hi, my name's Carly. I'm 26 years old and I wanted to know if the D1 quarterback athlete I was talking to was manipulating me or am I just being dramatic?

Okay. So, yeah. So he's like in his last year, like kind of like grad moment trying to make it type of deal. So he's 22 and we got connected through Snapchat. You know, let me get your Snapchat, which immediately should have been like whatever. But he was just like, what's your Snapchat? And I was like, OK, cool. Like we were at the bars. It wasn't a big deal. That's how we started talking.

Okay. So, yeah. So he's like in his last year, like kind of like grad moment trying to make it type of deal. So he's 22 and we got connected through Snapchat. You know, let me get your Snapchat, which immediately should have been like whatever. But he was just like, what's your Snapchat? And I was like, OK, cool. Like we were at the bars. It wasn't a big deal. That's how we started talking.

Okay. So, yeah. So he's like in his last year, like kind of like grad moment trying to make it type of deal. So he's 22 and we got connected through Snapchat. You know, let me get your Snapchat, which immediately should have been like whatever. But he was just like, what's your Snapchat? And I was like, OK, cool. Like we were at the bars. It wasn't a big deal. That's how we started talking.

We talked for a while and then I had to go back up to that school to see a friend, went there, hung out with him. We did like hang out for the whole day pretty much. And then we ended up like hooking up. But after that it was, and I knew that I wasn't like trying to get into anything serious or anything like that, but yeah.

We talked for a while and then I had to go back up to that school to see a friend, went there, hung out with him. We did like hang out for the whole day pretty much. And then we ended up like hooking up. But after that it was, and I knew that I wasn't like trying to get into anything serious or anything like that, but yeah.

We talked for a while and then I had to go back up to that school to see a friend, went there, hung out with him. We did like hang out for the whole day pretty much. And then we ended up like hooking up. But after that it was, and I knew that I wasn't like trying to get into anything serious or anything like that, but yeah.

After that, we started talking a lot more consistently, like chatting all day, every day. And mind you, this is like an important part of the story. Our messaging was through Snapchat at this time. He had asked for my number, but when we were talking like the, hey, good mornings, hey, everything, it was through Snapchat. It wasn't pictures, but it was like through the chat function.

After that, we started talking a lot more consistently, like chatting all day, every day. And mind you, this is like an important part of the story. Our messaging was through Snapchat at this time. He had asked for my number, but when we were talking like the, hey, good mornings, hey, everything, it was through Snapchat. It wasn't pictures, but it was like through the chat function.

After that, we started talking a lot more consistently, like chatting all day, every day. And mind you, this is like an important part of the story. Our messaging was through Snapchat at this time. He had asked for my number, but when we were talking like the, hey, good mornings, hey, everything, it was through Snapchat. It wasn't pictures, but it was like through the chat function.

So like we weren't using Snapchat as what Snapchat was really used for. Here and there, we would send like pictures of like whatever, but it was mostly used for the texting function, even though he had my number, whatever. but he would call me through regular number FaceTime through our regular phone numbers. But our like messaging was through Snapchat.